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Wild Food and Backyard Feasts - The Magic of a Small Town

Wild Food and Backyard Feasts - The Magic of a Small Town

Recipes From My 90-Year-Old Mom, and so Much More!

With our special guest, Freda Meriwether.

In this episode of the Family Tree, Food & Stories podcast, Co-Host Sylvia Lovely reconnects with her good friend, Freda Merriwether, who shares captivating and colorful food tales of her 90-year-old mother, Gloria Polly Medea Rice. The conversation spans Gloria's rich reputation as a 'character' in her community and her renowned recipes, particularly some that required a mad dash to grab it first in the backyard! Freda recounts their family's traditions, the small-town love and support Gloria receives, and the importance of preserving family stories. This heartwarming discussion highlights the intersection of family, history, and the culinary legacies that define us in ways we often forget until we remember and share them.

00:00 Introduction and Reunion

00:13 Freda's Mother: Gloria's Story

01:39 Life in Lewisburg and Family History

02:33 The Old Cemetery and Community Support

03:35 Gloria's Character and Cooking Secrets

06:29 Traditional Recipes and Cooking Methods

11:38 Reflections on Family and Heritage

13:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Additional Links

 

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Transcript

Sylvia Lovely:

Hi there, Freda Merriweather.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Freda Marriweather: Well, good morning, Ms.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Sylvie.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

It's been such a long time.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Such a long time.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Such a long time.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Like a week, but yeah.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

I know.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, before that, we spent nearly every day together.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Every day.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

For 10 years.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Every day.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I love it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

W'e're here today, Freda, as you know, with, Family Tree Food

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

and Stories podcast, that I do with Nancy May, who is an amazing person.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And I knew a lot about your mother, outside of Maysville, Kentucky, and you

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

did a little video with her one day, and I knew a lot of things about her.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

But that video was just priceless, and you did it on your phone.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

You said the television was blaring.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

It was blaring as usual.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

As usual, every time I go there, it's always blaring.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I can hear it out the door.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And she wasn't about to turn it down.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

No, she said she can't, yeah.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

We're not going to mess with her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Right.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

No, not at all.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I think she must have something going on with her hearing, but it's okay.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

It's okay.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I live with it now because, I mean, I'm used to it.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

How old is she?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

My mom just turned 90 in December.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So she'll be 91 this coming December.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Uh, we had a surprise birthday party for her, 90th birthday, and

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

it really was a surprise and she was upset that she didn't know about it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So, no one told her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

No one told her.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, now, tell us your mother's name.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

My mom's name is Gloria.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Polly Medea Rice.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, that's a, that's a regal name.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

It is.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

she says she's Medea.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I told her don't tell everybody that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

I love that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Now, your mother, again, I've heard so many things about her.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

She's like the official adoptee of the town.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Yes.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

You told me that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Now, I know you're, uh, you're one of the, does she have one,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

two, I know she had a son.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yes, it was me and my brother, and my brother, passed away

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

in a car accident in 1984, so, but yes, it was just the two of us, and my mom.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And of course, my mom and dad were divorced and estranged, so

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

my mom raised me and my brother.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Where?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

In Lewisburg, outside of Maysville.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

she's still in the same house that I was raised in and born, I wasn't born in

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

the house, but yeah, it's the only house I've ever known is where she is now.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she says she will not leave it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

No matter what, she had to be carried out, and I told her, okay.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

It's in a bit of a state of disrepair.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Just a little bit.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah, it's an older home.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, I'm, without telling my age, I'm like up there in the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

60s, so you can imagine the house was there before I was born.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So, she says it's historic, but I'm not sure, but she says it is.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She said some slave person used to live there years ago, so

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

that to her makes it historic.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But we haven't got a historic distinction on that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, I know as an aside, you're doing some work

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

on an old black cemetery that's in back of the house, right?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yes, there's an old cemetery that's

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

in the back of my mom's house.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Trying to figure out who owns it and really would love to see it

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

maintained somehow, but you have to cross a little creek to get there.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And back in the day, that's what they did when people died.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

They carried them up there across the creek and buried them there.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So a lot of old graves.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And right back when I was young, my brother, uh, He used to take

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

me in the neighborhood free and we would go up in the cemetery, but

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

he would leave us and we would cry.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

We were scared to death because a lot of the grays were sinking in.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So we didn't know if we were going to leave the cemetery or not.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I am working.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I like to try to figure something out on that and, and really try to figure out if

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

maybe there's someone who, served in the military, perhaps that might be buried

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

there and maybe can get some, Government Help, Because She Fits So Better, and,

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

that's buried there, but, uh, yeah.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, that's great.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Now, you know, Family Tree Food and Stories is all about family

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

stories, particularly as they surround food, but there's almost

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

no way to separate all that out.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

But what we're going to do today is, I want to give another brief introduction

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

to a word that is used often to describe your mother, character.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

She's a character.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And what would you say that means she is?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She's funny.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

She's sassy.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She's sassy.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You never know what's going to come out of her mouth and my husband says I'm

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

like my mom, but anyway He said this is what we're gonna have to deal with

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

when you get older I'm like, I doubt it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But yeah, but she she shoots straight from the hip I think over the years

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

she's probably gotten more like that Of course when we were younger, it

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

was just my mom Uh, that raised me and my brother and, back then we didn't

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

have a car, so we had to hitchhike to Maysville, we call it going to town.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

We had to go to town.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So we were sending our laundry baskets down by someone who we'd done a ride

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

with up on the road and then my mom, my brother and I, we would go down later.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

To the laundromat to wash her clothes once a week.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So, but we had to hitchhike everywhere.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And, uh, she, she's a strong woman.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She really is strong.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Now, the town takes care of her, right?

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Brings her food.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, there's you said the banker actually does her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah, there's a banker friend of ours.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she helps her, with paying her bills.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And you would think mom has a whole bunch of money, but she really don't.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But it's really sweet of them to do it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And, she's got a lot of people that bring her food and takes care of her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, she's 90.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I'd rather not she do too much cooking.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I'm grateful and appreciative of those people who rally around her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And it is like a small community.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I'm not quite sure she would get that kind of service in Lexington,

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I remember a time when, the mayor of Maysville, when we worked together

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

at KLC, was, on the board, but she would get her license plate.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she would take it down to the mayor's office and have the mayor

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

to put her license plates on.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Now, do you think our mayor here would put a license plate on anybody's car?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I doubt that.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But that's the small community.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

People just take care of each other.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And her highlight was she could get around.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Well, she'd just go everywhere.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Everybody knows her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

they bring her Diet Coke.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, she just, you know.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She gets everything.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, she's like, she's spoiled rotten.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's her problem.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Okay, now, so we've sort of established that this is a true character.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Now, you only had to watch that video to have that confirmed.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

one of my favorite parts is when she's leaning over to get a cigarette

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

as she's telling you that she's not about to tell you her recipes.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Exactly.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

But then you kind of reminded her that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

She would not be able to take them with her, right?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Exactly.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Oh, that's a secret.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I think she gave me recipes for her macaroni and cheese

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

and her scallop cabbage.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she said, I can't give you the recipe.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But I'm like, Mom, when you pass away, the recipe is gone.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So there will be no secret.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, I won't know.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I can't tell my kids If they wanted to know..

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, it just kind of goes with you.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So, we want to share that so it can continue on, in life.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So, she kind of went through it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And yeah,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, can you tell me generally one of those recipes?

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Because we could barely pick up on this specific because she was kind

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

of like, you know, this is what we did and we didn't write it down and.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, all that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

So what's your memory?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

It was like a spur of the moment kind of a video play I did

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

with her, just trying to record history.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You know, she's 90.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But she talked about her cat, Scallop Cabbage, and one of the things she

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

said, you know, you gotta decide how much, how many people you're feeding.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Is it going to be a small head or medium head, if it's just a few people,

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

a small head, but it need be hard.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

The cabbage need to be solid.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I'm like, okay.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She talked about she boils her cabbage, puts a lot of water, salt

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

in it, pepper, boil it, get it half done, cut it up, put it in the dish.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Oh, so she boils the whole head.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Boils the whole head.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She cuts it up, puts it in the dish.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Put some, save some of the liquid that's on it and pours that on there.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Um, she said you use butter, stick of butter, not margarine.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You gotta use stick of butter.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And a stick.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You gotta have a stick of butter.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she uses the, the cream, the cane cream.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She won't use the milk we get 2%.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, she's gotta be, yeah, gotta be cane cream.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

With some milk, salt, pepper.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She pours all that over there.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Crackers.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

If you use saltine, you don't need really add a lot of salt because the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

saltine has salt, the crackers had salt in it and pepper, and then you kind of

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

put some, like get a stick of butter over top of it and put it in the oven.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And uh, she said, well delicious.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Just delicious.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's just the way she tells her stories.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So, but she says the thing is about recipe.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I can't tell you exactly how much.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She said, you gotta use your brain.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She called it a brain quiz.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's rights.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She said it's a brain quiz, you gotta use your brain.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She said, I could never ever cook with any kind of recipe because you just got to use

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

your brain on deciding how much goes in.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

In where?

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Is he a taster?

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Did he taste what she made?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I'm sure, I'm sure, I'm sure.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And how did it taste?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Good.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I absolutely love her scallop cabbage.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

It's almost like same way you do scallop oysters, I guess, but it

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

would just be creamy because she's going to add that cane cream in

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

there, her butter, not margarine.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

A stick.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

A stick, exactly.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yes, yes, but always so good.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Of course, as she's gotten older, it's hard for her to cook now, but I just

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

remember How much I love her scholarship.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

How often would she cook then?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Probably quite often.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Quite often as I was growing up.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, of course, back in the day, Sylvia, in the country,

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

we had everything on the table that could run out in the yard.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's what we ate.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, anything that was out in the yard, even now, will be out.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She says, Oh, cut that, because I can put that in some grains.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I'm like, what?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I don't know.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's like weeds to me.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I don't know about putting weeds in my grains.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, I don't know what that is.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

But she said, No, no, you put that in there.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So everything she sees outdoors that could be cookable back in the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

day, that's kind of what they did.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You know, uh, we had, we didn't have, we had fresh chickens, you

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

know, chickens to be out in the yard.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Go get you one, go get you one.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And they cut the heads off and they pour things to be running around the yard.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And I just be, I was a kid, I'm looking like where is this chicken

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

going to land, it's running around.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, even now people will bring her, rabbits.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I'm like, I'm talking about they've skinned it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

The rabbit in the freezer shaped like the rabbit is like very disgusting

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

to me at this point in life.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And, but that's just, they bring her, they'll still bring her the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

wild animals that people I love that,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And the weeds and all of that, if we only knew,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

I mean, we don't know that now.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Right, right.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And as a young kid, I do remember going with my mom and my grandma,

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

uh, my grandmother, we'd go out in the fields and cut greens.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Well, I always said, show me one.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And then I'll try to find it in the grass because I didn't know

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

what they look like, but they did.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's just how they did it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

They, it was just the old way.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Not everything is so convenient for us now, but back in the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

day, that's how they lived.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Was getting their foods.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Do you now cook some of the same recipes?

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

I'm assuming you, you don't go out and pick weeds.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

No, I don't do any of that.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

No, I do cook greens.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I get them from the grocery store.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I do cook fresh greens and always.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

In my mind, acclimated in my mind is you always gotta have a

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

piece of old meat of some kind.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

In your greens.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You know, so I would go to maybe get some country ham hawk

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

and, and put it in my greens.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I try to do a little like her, but I don't cook rabbit.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I don't fry squirrel.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I don't do any of that.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I, yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Now I love chitlins.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I do eat that however.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I don't clean 'em.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

My husband does.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

My grandfather, he would make souse uh, from the hog head, so, Souse,

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Souse, and I think you can still get it in store, but it's probably not the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

same way my grandfather would make it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

They just kind of grind up the hog head and I'm not sure where

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

all else, but my grandfather will always vinegar, salt and pepper.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And it's kind of cut like in a square, but it's called Souse.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

The way I was raised was on food from the farm.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

From nature.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

but it's just grown differently.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And whatever didn't make it across the road.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Exactly.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Turtle.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You name it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Like, Oh my God, frog legs.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, you name it.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's just the way I was raised.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And my mom said, you should.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

So I forgot where you come from, especially when she

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

starts talking about all that.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And I'm going, Oh God, no, I can't eat that.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And it's like, you were raised on this kind of food.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

You know, but she's definitely, definitely a card and, and being 90, I'm trying to

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

get as much history from her as I can.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Oh, please do.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

'cause family is so important to me at the age I am now, is knowing my history

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

and knowing my family where I come from.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

That's so good.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And that's so Family tree, food and stories.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And I know you go every Thursday.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And, My favorite recent story, though, was that you said she thinks she owns

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

the seat that she sits in at church.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Oh yeah, we had that conversation.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah, she's like, no, that's my, I'm like, Mom, you literally

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

don't own the seat at the church.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she said, uh, you know, someone comes and sits in it, she's going

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

to stand there until they move.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I'm like, seriously, you can't just go and sit somewhere else.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I said, that's not very welcoming to people trying to come to the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

church, but she's not any different than A lot of people, older people

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

who think the seat is theirs, but you get used to a particular spot.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I think in the church, it's not so much that you feel it's your

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

seat, but if you get there first and you sit there every Sunday.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

And she's the oldest member of the church.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

That's the only church that she's known So yeah, but she's definitely

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

A walking page of history.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Every once a week I go down to help her and there's always some

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

kind of story, but as I've gotten older I kind of just let her.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Let her be, let her say the things that she want to say, even the

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

things she say to other people.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

It's just so funny.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I just sit there and look.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I used to get embarrassed, but I'm not embarrassed now.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

She does not embarrass me.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I love my mom and, um, uh, we go a long way.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I mean, she helped, she raised me, you know, she taught me to be

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

the person that I am today and,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Which is phenomenal, I might say.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

I know you well.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Thank you, Freda, for this wonderful little moment, and thank you on behalf

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

of Family Tree Food and Stories, and Nancy and I, this is just wonderful

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

for us, and we'll probably be back.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

We want to hear the constant stories, that are streaming away.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

from this phenomenal woman who will not be with us that much

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

longer, so let's soak it up.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Exactly, and I appreciate what you and Nancy are doing.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I look forward to seeing all the stories and the things that you have posted

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

so far now out on the Facebook page.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

It's just so interesting the things that you all have, and everyone has stories.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Everybody has stories about Recipes and family, and I just encourage people

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

to sit and talk to your older members, find out about your history, find out

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

about those recipes, uh, just stories of their lives as they grew up, because

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

everybody didn't have it easy, so you want to hear about your family,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

And they had to make do with what was right there

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

at hand, and that's what we're exploring, and there's so many of

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

those memories that go around food.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yes.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

You know, even when we're talking about the cemetery,

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

there are recipes etched on cemetery stones throughout the country.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Yeah.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

I saw the article and I'm like, wow, I hadn't thought about that.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

That's what people are known for.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Why does it have to be your, uh, the information that's normal?

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Why can't it be that person's favorite recipe?

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Maybe the scalloped cabbage.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Exactly.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Okay.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Well, very much for your time.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Thank you for taking time to talk with me and we will definitely be

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

back and so here I am signing off for Family Tree Food and Stories.

 

 


Sylvia Lovely:

Thank you very, very much.

 

 


Freda Marriweather:

Thank you.