Dec. 18, 2025

The Best Christmas Food Gifts Ever — Funny, Nostalgic, Unforgettable

The Best Christmas Food Gifts Ever — Funny, Nostalgic, Unforgettable

Best Christmas food gifts, explained and shared.

What makes a Christmas food gift unforgettable? In this episode of Family Tree Food & Stories, Nancy and Sylvia explore the best Christmas food gifts, sharing true stories behind fruitcake traditions, Hickory Farms boxes, homemade holiday drinks, and regional favorites that turn simple food into lasting memories.

What regional holiday traditions, family favorites, and even strange corporate food gifts have become long-running stories? Have you ever heard of Traveling Jack? Or received a food gift so simple—like a can of soup or an orange in a stocking—that you never forgot it (nor did anyone else)? These are often the gifts that become legends and stay with us year after year.

This episode also explains why food gifts matter more than other presents. They are personal and often connected to family history or a story. Whether it’s a homemade holiday drink, a box of sausage and cheese that arrives every year, or a shared dessert at the table, food gifts connect us to culture, memory, and each other.

If you’re looking for Christmas food gift ideas, want to understand holiday traditions, or enjoy stories about food and family, this episode shows why the best gifts are thoughtful, simple, and meant to be shared.

⭐ 5 Key Takeaways from the Episode

  1. Food Gifts Always Tell a Story: Whether it’s fruitcake, soup, wine, a cheese box, or homemade cookies, they often last longer than that sweater you got and will only wear once.
  2. Traditions Are Hidden in Holiday Food Treats: From the Feast of the Seven Fishes to Southern Hoppin’ John and German stollen, where you’re from often what foods you gift—and why.
  3. Funny Food Gifts Become Great Stories: Giant chocolate boxes, traveling wine containers, and accidental potatoes prove to be the stories you'll likely never forget.
  4. Homemade Gifts Feel (And Taste) Extra Special: Recipes like homemade holiday drinks or baked goods add a personal touch that store-bought gifts just can't replicate.
  5. Simple Can Be Powerful: Did you ever get an orange in a stocking or a loaf of bread? It reminds us that thoughtful food gifts don’t need to be fancy to be special.

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If you’re searching for Christmas food gift ideas, love holiday traditions, or love sharing stories that mix humor with heart, listen in and share Family Tree Food & Stories on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Facebook, or wherever you get your podcasts—and don't forget to share it with someone with your friends and family.

Because every meal has a story… and every story deserves a feast. (TM)

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About Your Award-Winning Hosts: Nancy May and Sylvia Lovely are the powerhouse team behind Family Tree, Food & Stories, a member of The Food Stories Media Network, which celebrates the rich traditions and connections everyone has around food, friends, and family meals. Nancy, an award-winning business leader, author, and podcaster, and Sylvia, a visionary author, lawyer, and former CEO, combine their expertise to bring captivating stories rooted in history, heritage, and food. Together, they weave stories that blend history, tradition, and the love of food, where generations connect and share intriguing mealtime stories and kitchen foibles.

"Every Meal Has a Story and Every Story is a Feast." (tm) is a trademark of Family Tree Food & Stories podcast and the hosts.

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Nancy May:

Hey, Sylvia.

Nancy May:

Happy holidays.

Nancy May:

Ho, ho, ho.

Sylvia Lovely:

Don't get ahead of yourself now,

Nancy May:

I know, right?

Nancy May:

this week we're talking about regional traditions and, food gifts.

Nancy May:

But before we get there, I have to share.

Nancy May:

I think this is one of the most fun gifts we've had almost all year, Sylvia.

Sylvia Lovely:

Mm-hmm.

Nancy May:

Well, I was listening to a podcast driving back from a long drive

Nancy May:

this morning, and I heard Christopher Kimmel from Milk Street talking

Nancy May:

about eating your Christmas tree.

Sylvia Lovely:

Well,

Nancy May:

guess what?

Sylvia Lovely:

We did it first!

Sylvia Lovely:

No.

Sylvia Lovely:

Busted.

Nancy May:

And eating bugs.

Nancy May:

So as they say, imitation is the finest form of flattery.

Nancy May:

So we'll either pat ourselves on the back with a spoon.

Sylvia Lovely:

I know, but I wanna tell him.

Nancy May:

I know we, well, I think other people have been

Nancy May:

eating that stuff first, but

Sylvia Lovely:

and, you created a video about it, I mean, yeah.

Nancy May:

did.

Nancy May:

So anyway, that has been a lot of fun, but let's dive into our show about the

Nancy May:

nostalgic and regional traditions, and of course you can't have the holidays,

Nancy May:

especially Christmas without food gifts.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, absolutely.

Sylvia Lovely:

Got some really cool stuff on that.

Sylvia Lovely:

. But first of all, , what we looked at were all these regional things and

Sylvia Lovely:

it's like pages and pages of them.

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause all the little sub regions and all of that kind of thing too.

Sylvia Lovely:

But we start out with your neck of the woods, which is the northeast,

Sylvia Lovely:

and , all the things that go on up there.

Sylvia Lovely:

, Salt, cod, baked beans, brown bread.

Sylvia Lovely:

The one thing I'd love to talk about a little bit is the Feast of Seven Fishes.

Nancy May:

Oh yeah, there's a lot big Italian communities up there for sure.

Sylvia Lovely:

yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

And it was formed, in southern Italy.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's very obviously religious oriented, and it is a dinner held on Christmas Eve.

Sylvia Lovely:

, Typically, although in modern days it's, it varies a little bit.

Sylvia Lovely:

And the Seven Fishes, I was fascinated by this.

Sylvia Lovely:

that's significant because it relates back to the Bible and seven

Sylvia Lovely:

is a magic number in the Bible.

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause it's, , seven days of , creation, sacraments, , the heavenly bodies at that

Sylvia Lovely:

time, seven of them were able to be seen.

Sylvia Lovely:

So that was the origin of the Seven Fishes.

Sylvia Lovely:

And it's a variety of.

Sylvia Lovely:

Fishes,, but I'm so proud of it because for several years now, Azure

Sylvia Lovely:

has done a Feast of the Seven Fishes.

Nancy May:

Well, wait a second.

Nancy May:

I've got one for you.

Nancy May:

'cause I think we figured out that alligator was considered.

Nancy May:

fish at some point when you couldn't eat fish.

Nancy May:

Right.

Nancy May:

So maybe we can

Sylvia Lovely:

I

Sylvia Lovely:

love that.

Nancy May:

fishy gator along the way and make it a southern deal

Sylvia Lovely:

Uh, okay.

Sylvia Lovely:

I think I will pass on that.

Sylvia Lovely:

We used to do it as a big family style thing, like 40 people

Sylvia Lovely:

around tables put together.

Sylvia Lovely:

People didn't like that.

Sylvia Lovely:

Isn't that interesting?

Sylvia Lovely:

They didn't like sitting by people they didn't know, which I think is a

Sylvia Lovely:

shame, except if you've ever been at a dinner party and you got placed besides,

Sylvia Lovely:

have you ever been in a conversation where you did all the conversation?

Nancy May:

Oh God,

Sylvia Lovely:

it, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Nancy May:

I think you had a date like that once,

Sylvia Lovely:

I did.

Sylvia Lovely:

I was the perpetrator.

Sylvia Lovely:

But you , to try to sit there and talk to someone who doesn't wanna talk to

Sylvia Lovely:

you, but it's kind of a shame because it's supposed to be a family kind

Nancy May:

Social.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

So anyway, that's kind of one of the big signing stars of the

Sylvia Lovely:

Northeast, miss Northeasterner, as opposed to a Noreastern.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

well, we get those too in the wintertime with snow, but that's for another show.

Sylvia Lovely:

But then we have the south, and there you are

Sylvia Lovely:

in Florida with your Gators

Nancy May:

That's right.

Nancy May:

Go Gators.

Sylvia Lovely:

all that kinda stuff.

Sylvia Lovely:

What I'm most interested in there is the Hoppin' John.

Sylvia Lovely:

And I have a recipe, that I sent to you and , it's everywhere.

Sylvia Lovely:

I mean, we serve it here, , kind of health oriented restaurants, serve,

Sylvia Lovely:

Hoppin' John, and sort of the major pieces of that is a ham hock.

Sylvia Lovely:

And , different kinds of beans and a lot of wonderful spices.

Sylvia Lovely:

And,, it comes out of, this is fascinating.

Sylvia Lovely:

The Gullah Geechee, I, I, I have to almost look at it to say it, which is along

Sylvia Lovely:

the coast of the US South Carolina being kind of the epicenter of that culture.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's African American, , former slaves, , from.

Sylvia Lovely:

west and Central Africa and they have created a whole culture

Sylvia Lovely:

around, have you ever heard of the rice that's famous out of there?

Sylvia Lovely:

Rice Oka collared greens, but it's, uh, Carolina Gold.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yes.

Nancy May:

Yes.

Nancy May:

Very famous brand.

Nancy May:

Absolutely.

Sylvia Lovely:

And it, it's wonderful.

Sylvia Lovely:

And , Carolina Gold is very expensive and they keep it that way.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's like old saved seeds that they brought forward, and it's a

Sylvia Lovely:

particularly delicious, nutty, flavored, creamy, all that kind of stuff.

Sylvia Lovely:

So it sound

Nancy May:

So it's like a heritage rice then.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's a heritage, rice

Sylvia Lovely:

gold, California Gold, or California gold.

Sylvia Lovely:

Listen to me.

Sylvia Lovely:

Uh,

Nancy May:

Carolina Gold.

Sylvia Lovely:

Carolina, I'm

Nancy May:

your mouth girl.

Nancy May:

It's not California.

Sylvia Lovely:

Sorry, Carol Carolina.

Nancy May:

Well, you've got Kentucky too.

Nancy May:

You mentioned jam cake when we were chatting and, I have

Nancy May:

never heard of jam cake.

Sylvia Lovely:

Jam cake.

Sylvia Lovely:

, I've seen it.

Sylvia Lovely:

My grandmother would make it, and it has several layers, but the reason

Sylvia Lovely:

it's called Kentucky is the Germans.

Sylvia Lovely:

This is at least as the myth, I don't know if it's true, I wasn't along for

Sylvia Lovely:

the ride, but the German population, they settled mostly in Cincinnati, but

Sylvia Lovely:

as they came, so more south, which is where we are in Appalachia, is south.

Sylvia Lovely:

Then they were looking for black walnut trees.

Sylvia Lovely:

Why?

Sylvia Lovely:

Because that meant the soil was rich.

Sylvia Lovely:

Now, I know we have tons of walnut trees around here, because I've

Sylvia Lovely:

had 'em clunk on my head when I've gone for a walk in the fall.

Sylvia Lovely:

But , what Kentucky's is, , it's a spicy, kind of boozy, kind of juicy blackberry

Sylvia Lovely:

jam layers, and the Kentucky Jam is really most famous for Blackberry.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's our state.

Sylvia Lovely:

Berry, ? So blackberry jam, it has to be the real thing.

Sylvia Lovely:

Nuts and spice cake, obviously walnuts,

Nancy May:

and put a little bourbon in there too.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, I say if you are a good kentuckian, you

Sylvia Lovely:

would, but it has that definite.

Sylvia Lovely:

, And it says other facts about say that if you don't use homemade

Sylvia Lovely:

jam, and this is like a warning, the jam will sink to the bottom.

Sylvia Lovely:

Well, that's because if you go buy store-bought, you don't buy, store-bought.

Sylvia Lovely:

You do the jam that grandma makes.

Sylvia Lovely:

, And unlike a lot of other jam cakes, which are layered Kentucky

Sylvia Lovely:

jam cakes, mixes it all together.

Sylvia Lovely:

And

Nancy May:

So you mix the jam into the batter?

Sylvia Lovely:

That's what they say.

Sylvia Lovely:

I'd love for our listeners to confirm that if they've actually made it.

Sylvia Lovely:

, It says a sweet, tangy flavor and, uh, I love this part.

Sylvia Lovely:

Covered in caramel,

Nancy May:

Oh.

Nancy May:

You know, I think we're going to have to give this assignment to Meredith to learn.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh yes.

Sylvia Lovely:

I've checked in with Meredith, by the way.

Sylvia Lovely:

Had a birthday dinner with Meredith and I said, are you still cooking?

Sylvia Lovely:

Yes, she said, I'm a machine.

Sylvia Lovely:

I'm cooking all the time.

Nancy May:

A bread machine.

Sylvia Lovely:

I am surprised that DoorDash hasn't gone outta business

Sylvia Lovely:

since Meredith started cooking.

Nancy May:

That's funny.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

So , we went to a restaurant for her birthday, but she's having a

Sylvia Lovely:

Christmas event and cooking for it.

Sylvia Lovely:

So I'll get a

Nancy May:

Whoa.

Nancy May:

Meredith is taking on the big challenge.

Nancy May:

You go, girl.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

For those who are listening and don't know Meredith, Meredith is our convert.

Nancy May:

I'll call her who didn't cook.

Nancy May:

She would always bring the paper plates to the party and well, we helped her

Nancy May:

turn that tide or turn that page, and she's got a lot of stories to go along

Nancy May:

the way, which I'm very proud of.

Sylvia Lovely:

Does that mean we're influencers?

Nancy May:

Oh, well, certainly on Meredith, but anyway, speaking

Sylvia Lovely:

come on.

Sylvia Lovely:

Take a walk of pride.

Sylvia Lovely:

You're an influencer.

Sylvia Lovely:

I love

Nancy May:

Right, right.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Uh, what about Scandinavian influence?

Sylvia Lovely:

I think that's kind of

Sylvia Lovely:

an

Nancy May:

well that is interesting.

Nancy May:

if you've listened to our Hanukkah show, we talked with Madelena,

Nancy May:

who is of Scandinavian Jewish descent, which is a, rather small.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Cohort.

Sylvia Lovely:

Mm-hmm.

Nancy May:

she does a lot of mixing of the Scandinavian foods and the

Nancy May:

traditional Jewish holiday traditions.

Nancy May:

So that was fascinating.

Nancy May:

But I guess, Minnesota is also a big thing too.

Nancy May:

It's not just Jewish,

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, lots of that.

Sylvia Lovely:

in fact, Duluth, where my son is, is why I'm more familiar with this.

Sylvia Lovely:

So I got to talking one day in the hotel restaurant to a lady who

Sylvia Lovely:

was there for the Scandinavian.

Sylvia Lovely:

Festival and the foods that they served at the Scandinavian festival , and they

Sylvia Lovely:

were from a small town in Minnesota.

Sylvia Lovely:

They had traveled to Duluth, which is on Lake Superior.

Sylvia Lovely:

And she talked about all the things like Swedish meatballs, you know,

Sylvia Lovely:

this is interesting what they serve at holiday time, crisp pork belly.

Sylvia Lovely:

I don't think of that as Scandanavian

Nancy May:

Ooh.

Nancy May:

No, , I would think fish more, right?

Nancy May:

So I do know that I've got some friends over the years who were scan,

Nancy May:

or are Scandinavian and Norwegian.

Nancy May:

, Bob's cousin is from that, well, her husband's from that region north of

Nancy May:

the Arctic Circle in Trumso, Norway.

Nancy May:

In fact, when we first met him, , we asked where he lived and he, drew

Nancy May:

the line in the Arctic circle.

Nancy May:

He said, see that?

Nancy May:

He said, yes.

Nancy May:

I live way north of that.

Nancy May:

So,

Sylvia Lovely:

Wow.

Sylvia Lovely:

Hearty soul.

Nancy May:

but there's a cold water shrimp that I know the, Swedish people love,

Nancy May:

and it's , tiny and, very, very sweet compared to the shrimp that we're used

Nancy May:

to down here in, more of the southern region that are big, meaty shrimpy things.

Nancy May:

Right.

Nancy May:

You know, technical terms, shrimpy things.

Sylvia Lovely:

Mm-hmm.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, tiny.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, I

Sylvia Lovely:

love that.

Nancy May:

teeny tiny.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

But

Sylvia Lovely:

You wanna Uh, you wanna hear a preparation that

Sylvia Lovely:

makes me like say, I don't want it.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's dried.

Sylvia Lovely:

white fish.

Sylvia Lovely:

Soaked, soaked in lie Seriously.

Nancy May:

yeah, that is that Luda Fish.

Nancy May:

Lu Lu.

Sylvia Lovely:

Well, it's called, yes, it's called Luta Fish.

Nancy May:

Luda Fish.

Nancy May:

Yes, I've heard about that.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

No, it doesn't make me think that's good.

Sylvia Lovely:

Kind of.

Sylvia Lovely:

Gelatin kind of texture.

Sylvia Lovely:

Um, and I'm like, no, I don't think so.

Sylvia Lovely:

But , these Scandinavians look pretty healthy.

Nancy May:

I know , I could maybe choke down a bite, but,

Sylvia Lovely:

one last one I wanna mention because it's just

Sylvia Lovely:

familiar to me, is Getta, and it's a, and a huge German influence.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, by the way, uh, my brother did one of those ancestry things.

Sylvia Lovely:

I'm part German.

Nancy May:

oh

Sylvia Lovely:

Huh.

Nancy May:

ya.

Nancy May:

You

Nancy May:

are

Nancy May:

German

Sylvia Lovely:

me,

Sylvia Lovely:

me.

Sylvia Lovely:

I guess they're short and, you know, I don't know, you know that

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause I am, well, well I am, Irish, Scots English and German.

Sylvia Lovely:

but it's spam like, , but it's a combination of pork, beef and steel cut

Sylvia Lovely:

oats, which we've already had a show on oats and it's in the Cincinnati region.

Sylvia Lovely:

And it's pretty good.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's like they cook it as in sausage patties, so serve it a lot with

Sylvia Lovely:

breakfast foods and then have it on holidays too, because Getta just

Sylvia Lovely:

real popular in Northern Kentucky and

Sylvia Lovely:

Cincinnati.

Nancy May:

they, make it like blood sausage 'cause I think they do

Nancy May:

the same thing with blood sausage, with, oats in, it there as well.

Nancy May:

But

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh.

Nancy May:

never, had that,

Sylvia Lovely:

I don't want it.

Nancy May:

yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

I don't want it.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Anything says blood in it.

Sylvia Lovely:

I wanna stay away from

Nancy May:

No, no, but, on that note, we also have the holidays.

Nancy May:

Have you ever received a food as a gift

Sylvia Lovely:

Yes, I've forgotten chocolates.

Sylvia Lovely:

I've gotten big, giant hams.

Sylvia Lovely:

I've gotten like two hams, in one holiday and gave the one of

Sylvia Lovely:

them away because they're big.

Sylvia Lovely:

Right.

Sylvia Lovely:

but yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

And cookies.

Sylvia Lovely:

And then my neighbor makes stolen bread.

Nancy May:

Oh, that's a big deal.

Nancy May:

I love,

Nancy May:

stolen.

Sylvia Lovely:

He learned how to make it.

Sylvia Lovely:

At a festival in Germany that he was touring, they go and they

Sylvia Lovely:

tour in, in Europe and it was really tasty and ,, it's related,

Sylvia Lovely:

by the way, to the fruitcake.

Nancy May:

That I didn't know.

Nancy May:

So every Christmas morning growing up, we had stolen because my dad's

Nancy May:

dad side of the family was German.

Nancy May:

And we'd sing, well, he would sing the Christmas carols like O

Nancy May:

Tannenbaum and things like that.

Nancy May:

And some of the German.

Nancy May:

, Christmas carols in German.

Nancy May:

As he remembered, but it was always stolen and eggs in the morning,

Nancy May:

and so I brought that tradition.

Nancy May:

When Bob and I got married, I made it once, I'm not sure it was traditional,

Nancy May:

so I have to get your friend's recipe

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, it was really good and I had never had it before, but it

Sylvia Lovely:

does have those little fruit bits in it,

Nancy May:

and dusted with sugar and buttery and it's, yeah, it's delicious

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

so Fruitcakes . Panton, which is a sweet Italian bread.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Sweet bread.

Sylvia Lovely:

But, um, you know, we could not talk about food gifts at holiday

Sylvia Lovely:

time without mentioning the good old fruitcake, don't you think

Nancy May:

I agree.

Nancy May:

Oh, my parents once got a fruitcake as a gift from friends.

Nancy May:

I guess they were clients of my dad or vendors in Texas, and

Nancy May:

the fruitcake was in the shape.

Nancy May:

Of Texas and a big old cherry, like one of those candy cherries was right in the

Nancy May:

center where the capital was in Austin.

Nancy May:

It was the best darn fruitcake I've ever had,

Nancy May:

I like.

Nancy May:

Fruitcake, so yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

I see I, my dad loved fruit cake, but there's a big

Sylvia Lovely:

joke that started by Johnny Carson.

Sylvia Lovely:

If you are under 40, you don't know who Johnny was, but he was

Sylvia Lovely:

a big late night star, right?

Sylvia Lovely:

And he famously said, there is only one fruit cake in the world, and

Sylvia Lovely:

everyone just passes it around.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

Well, , and it's probably well pickled with some sort of

Sylvia Lovely:

Spirits.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah,

Nancy May:

they put ram in it

Sylvia Lovely:

yeah, yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's real popular in the Caribbean, , for that reason.

Sylvia Lovely:

But,, the oldest one though, it was baked during the Hayes

Sylvia Lovely:

Presidential Administration at 1878, and it still exists.

Sylvia Lovely:

I don't know if you can eat it or not.

Nancy May:

where is it?

Nancy May:

We gotta search right?

Sylvia Lovely:

That's,

Nancy May:

right?

Nancy May:

, Sylvia Lovely: But the Romans invented fruitcake because it was an energy 'cause

Nancy May:

remember, uh, what all it's got in it.

Nancy May:

It's got all these fruit bits and all of that, and it's really

Nancy May:

sustainable because it lasts forever,

Nancy May:

So it was like your first granola bar with fruit,

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, I, so it's a Roman, Roman energy bar, but, they say

Sylvia Lovely:

it's declining here in the us but they still sell about 2 million every year.

Sylvia Lovely:

I call it the default gift.

Sylvia Lovely:

, That was started by the US Postal Service in 1896.

Sylvia Lovely:

They opened up mail service to the rural parts of the country and

Sylvia Lovely:

fruitcake, boomed as a result of that.

Nancy May:

So I'm gonna have a theory that if the US Postal System promoted.

Nancy May:

Well, they may not have promoted, but they did a lot of shipping.

Nancy May:

A fruitcake if you're paying by the pound to move something.

Sylvia Lovely:

I know.

Nancy May:

Maybe it was a way to, , increase the pension rolls

Sylvia Lovely:

exactly.

Nancy May:

was,

Sylvia Lovely:

So what do you think are the most popular, , gifts?

Sylvia Lovely:

What do you think?

Sylvia Lovely:

Food, gifts?

Sylvia Lovely:

. There are two kind of food gifts.

Sylvia Lovely:

One is the hostess gift and the other's just.

Sylvia Lovely:

That you give people, right?

Sylvia Lovely:

So what do you

Nancy May:

Well, , we've got a few gifts that we have dealt with over

Nancy May:

the years and Bob's grandfather, used to send us every year, apparently it

Nancy May:

was a tradition before I got there.

Nancy May:

Obviously Grandpa Dunn, the Hickory Farms,

Sylvia Lovely:

Mm-hmm.

Nancy May:

The sausage and cheese boxes, and when we first got

Nancy May:

one I looked at this and said.

Nancy May:

Really, are we supposed to like this?

Sylvia Lovely:

My Dad loved them!

Nancy May:

One before.

Nancy May:

Then we waited till we had a party and we started to slice and taste it

Nancy May:

before guests get figuring like, okay, let's see if this is really good.

Nancy May:

I have to tell you, I was hooked.

Nancy May:

I couldn't wait for every year thereafter to get the Hickory Farms gift box or the

Nancy May:

gift box of cheeses and smoked things.

Nancy May:

And then when Grandpa Dunn died at, I think he was just like a week or so away

Nancy May:

from his hundred and second birthday, so.

Nancy May:

I thank you.

Nancy May:

Hillshire Farms or Hickory, Hickory smoke farms, whatever, Hillshire,

Nancy May:

Hickory Farms, Swiss Colony, all those kind of companies that do that.

Nancy May:

Then his stepmom, Barbara gave us the boxes came out and so, but when Barbara

Nancy May:

passed and we had to go get our own.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh.

Nancy May:

our own, so

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, ah.

Sylvia Lovely:

You should have buried a box with him, but

Sylvia Lovely:

yeah, you know.

Sylvia Lovely:

Do you remember getting your Harry and David catalogs?

Sylvia Lovely:

I don't get 'em anymore

Nancy May:

Oh, I do remember the Harry.

Nancy May:

I used to, I never bought anything for anybody, but I certainly,

Nancy May:

I like looking at the catalogs,

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, they're so pretty.

Sylvia Lovely:

And then they've expanded.

Sylvia Lovely:

I've just seen them fleetingly, but they serve everything now, like meats.

Sylvia Lovely:

And you can get anything.

Sylvia Lovely:

You can get anything, you know, like Omaha steaks

Nancy May:

Oh, and now I have done Omaha.

Nancy May:

I have given Omaha steaks, so

Sylvia Lovely:

How do you do that?

Nancy May:

Well, it's pretty interesting 'cause I, we got one ourselves once from

Nancy May:

Bob's brother, and here's what they do.

Nancy May:

They, they basically send everything in this big styrofoam box.

Nancy May:

It's very thick styrofoam, like a, like a cooler with some dry ice

Nancy May:

and, or I think, I don't know if it's dry ice or regular ice, but it's

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cold when it arrives, even if it's

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down south.

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And all sorts of delicious things that were in there.

Nancy May:

We had mini sticks and things, but I would get them every year for all of the

Nancy May:

aids that took , care of mom and dad, as well as bonus things that they got.

Nancy May:

But my focus on this was they did so much to cook and take care of, and,

Nancy May:

support my parents over those years.

Nancy May:

That I wanted to give them something so that they wouldn't have to cook.

Nancy May:

It was all sort of packaged that their family could put it on the

Nancy May:

grill or would do whatever and they could just enjoy something special.

Nancy May:

So yeah, I think they, I hope they enjoyed that.

Nancy May:

But um, that was kind of fun to give.

Nancy May:

So I'm a hosts

Sylvia Lovely:

Okay.

Sylvia Lovely:

Now do you watch, uh, okay, I'm gonna make a confession here.

Sylvia Lovely:

I incorporate jokes from really good sitcoms

Nancy May:

well wait a second.

Nancy May:

Can we stop before you make

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

confession

Sylvia Lovely:

am gonna make the confession after

Nancy May:

and you're gonna make a confession, but we're going to

Nancy May:

keep everybody on hold for just a minute because beyond holiday gifts, well

Nancy May:

beyond holiday food gifts, you might wanna get a book and here's that story.

Nancy May:

We'll be right back.

Nancy May:

Okay.

Nancy May:

Sylvia, I

Sylvia Lovely:

Okay.

Nancy May:

what your, you're confessing to Nancy and to the world of our listeners.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, I know.

Nancy May:

Father Jim?

Nancy May:

When we need him, right.

Sylvia Lovely:

yeah, really, really,

Sylvia Lovely:

I watch sitcoms, really quality ones where the acting is just amazing 'cause

Sylvia Lovely:

you learn so much about comedy technique.

Sylvia Lovely:

And one of them, though, I don't watch much anymore, but used to is Raymond.

Nancy May:

Oh yeah, I was about to say, are there

Sylvia Lovely:

well.

Nancy May:

that comes?

Nancy May:

I guess there are.

Sylvia Lovely:

They really are Frazier, they're just beautiful little sitcoms.

Sylvia Lovely:

But anyway, this one, there's two episodes dealing with the parents,

Sylvia Lovely:

which who are real characters, real independent, crazy, all that

Sylvia Lovely:

kinda stuff, and all their antics.

Sylvia Lovely:

But one year they got a Harry and David Fruit of the Month.

Sylvia Lovely:

and the show was just all about a fruit of the month.

Sylvia Lovely:

Who would eat a fruit of the month?

Sylvia Lovely:

We don't need that.

Sylvia Lovely:

But the even better one is they got them a toaster one year and

Sylvia Lovely:

they took it back to the store

Sylvia Lovely:

and you know, and again, give it, yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

I mean they were that irreverent, right?

Sylvia Lovely:

But then they found out that it had been engraved with

Sylvia Lovely:

Raymond's family's names on it.

Nancy May:

No.

Sylvia Lovely:

And it showed 'em going through the warehouse

Sylvia Lovely:

looking for this toaster that they had accidentally returned.

Sylvia Lovely:

Anyway, those are funny kinds of gifts.

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause some people like the Harry and David Fruit of the month.

Sylvia Lovely:

I haven't ever gotten one, but you have pretty fruit.

Nancy May:

And wine.

Nancy May:

So , I will take the wine, , of the month, please.

Nancy May:

Thank you very much.

Nancy May:

So if you're thinking about me,

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah,

Nancy May:

you can do that.

Nancy May:

You know the interesting thing about wine of the month is that

Nancy May:

when they do those, , Wall Street Journal and other companies, do

Nancy May:

the, or predominantly publishers do that, here's how they do this.

Nancy May:

This is kind of interesting.

Nancy May:

So they typically work with small producers and you can't buy those wines.

Nancy May:

Elsewhere.

Nancy May:

You get them in your packages and when you try and go look for them, it's like,

Nancy May:

oh my God, that was a really good wine.

Nancy May:

You can't find it again.

Nancy May:

Because they cater to those.

Nancy May:

So we've had friends who've done that and we've had some great wines with that.

Nancy May:

They've

Nancy May:

gotten, but yep, yep.

Sylvia Lovely:

that's fascinating.

Nancy May:

Yeah.

Nancy May:

So can I tell you about another gift?

Nancy May:

So this is a gift that is , we're gonna switch to homemade gifts because not

Nancy May:

everybody likes homemade gifts, but this is a homemade one and I mentioned

Nancy May:

it, I think I mentioned it last year.

Nancy May:

But this is Bob's gift.

Nancy May:

It's Santa's secret flying sauce, he learned this, it's actually written up in

Nancy May:

our book, but he learned how to make this, I think from one of his old, , police

Nancy May:

captains when he was a police officer.

Nancy May:

In days gone by, I think we make it better, but.

Nancy May:

It's basically homemade Bailey's.

Nancy May:

And then he didn't have a name for it.

Nancy May:

It was just, he called it homemade Bailey's.

Nancy May:

And then when he met me, I said, well, you can't just give that

Nancy May:

away with the name Bailey's on it.

Nancy May:

We have to create , a new name for it.

Nancy May:

So I nicknamed it Santa's Secret Flying Sauce because this stuff is so potent

Nancy May:

that this is all Santa needs to drink to get around the globe in 24 hours and back.

Nancy May:

In fact, we've seen it work on attitudes of friends who have not had

Nancy May:

such a good attitude end up leaving with a very good attitude at the end.

Sylvia Lovely:

Ah, so it's a, it's a sauce or a drink.

Nancy May:

it's a drink, it's homemade be, I'll put the recipe,

Nancy May:

in the show notes, so we'll

Sylvia Lovely:

Homemade Bailey's.

Sylvia Lovely:

So you're a re you are a, uh, oh, what do you call those?

Sylvia Lovely:

Um, you don't have a still out in your, uh, your making your backyard.

Sylvia Lovely:

Bailey's

Nancy May:

It puts a new word on, or a new definition , on the word stiff

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh,

Nancy May:

or relaxed.

Nancy May:

Just relax and drink this.

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh.

Nancy May:

the sauce.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah, well, you know, uh, hostess gifts.

Sylvia Lovely:

This one I liked.

Sylvia Lovely:

a jello mode, , was g brought by an aunt year after year and one year she said,

Sylvia Lovely:

well, I don't know if I can bring it.

Sylvia Lovely:

And everybody broke into cheers.

Sylvia Lovely:

She brought two the next year

Nancy May:

I love that.

Nancy May:

That's hysterical.

Nancy May:

Oh

Sylvia Lovely:

I know.

Sylvia Lovely:

careful what you cheer for.

Nancy May:

right.

Nancy May:

So, and then of course, chocolates, chocolates and wine are always

Sylvia Lovely:

Chocolate and wine and, and together, uh, you know, they're great.

Sylvia Lovely:

, I could not let this show goodbye though that I don't mention the

Sylvia Lovely:

lowly orange, during the depression, the orange was a delicacy.

Sylvia Lovely:

And I remember my mother and father saying on occasion they got an orange

Sylvia Lovely:

for Christmas and that was all they got.

Sylvia Lovely:

And people would send home an orange, , and send that back to the families

Sylvia Lovely:

that were, impacted by the depression

Nancy May:

So the orange.

Sylvia Lovely:

don't care.

Nancy May:

Yep.

Nancy May:

The orange was always in the toe of our stockings.

Nancy May:

And , my husband said that when growing up, they had them

Nancy May:

in the toes of their stock.

Nancy May:

I guess that's better than coal.

Nancy May:

Or you know, the, the families that have the snowbirds in the

Nancy May:

early days and send you back.

Nancy May:

Boxes or the cartons of the oranges.

Nancy May:

One year we had, some hunters, or some folks who wanted to hunt our

Nancy May:

property up in Connecticut for deer, and we said, fine, because they were

Nancy May:

getting a little un unruly if, if you were upset with hunting, I'm

Nancy May:

sorry, , if you eat meat, then.

Nancy May:

You know, so be it E Ex. Exactly.

Nancy May:

But , that's not to put anybody down who does or doesn't.

Nancy May:

So they sent us as a gift, not just , some venison, which they had gotten

Nancy May:

enough of, but they also sent us a big carton, , one of those gigantic boxes.

Nancy May:

Oranges from Florida, which was lovely except our mailman

Nancy May:

crammed them into our mailbox.

Nancy May:

Now we had a big mailbox, but are like trying to pry that thing out.

Nancy May:

Don't ever try and pry, first of all, if you work for the postal system, don't cram

Nancy May:

or just in somebody's mailbox, because we needed a crowbar to take it out.

Nancy May:

I think we probably ended up with more orange juice than orange juice

Sylvia Lovely:

had orange juice coated, uh, mail delivery.

Sylvia Lovely:

I love that.

Sylvia Lovely:

Um, you know, they're, uh, people re-gifting things.

Sylvia Lovely:

That's another interesting thing.

Nancy May:

food.

Nancy May:

That's kind of hard though.

Sylvia Lovely:

That's hard, but like a candle.

Sylvia Lovely:

I mean, how many candles have you gotten?

Sylvia Lovely:

How many coffee cups have you gotten?

Sylvia Lovely:

And that's sweet.

Sylvia Lovely:

It's a good gesture, but a lot of people will give those candles

Sylvia Lovely:

away ' cause they get so many of them.

Sylvia Lovely:

And, sometimes it's ended up with the person who gave the gift.

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause

Sylvia Lovely:

that's the cardinal sin.

Sylvia Lovely:

You're not supposed to let the person know that it was, a gift.

Sylvia Lovely:

So, that it was their gift you, that you're regifting.

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause it's okay to regift if, you are very careful about it.

Sylvia Lovely:

Like maybe a distant cousin or somewhere and you take the candle and give it away.

Sylvia Lovely:

'cause you want something to be used, right.

Nancy May:

we had a lot of dusty candles.

Nancy May:

Yes.

Sylvia Lovely:

Now, I don't know about you, but I don't buy new gift bags all

Sylvia Lovely:

the time because they're so expensive.

Sylvia Lovely:

So I read gift and gift bags, but I try to be careful to make sure

Sylvia Lovely:

their name of the other person's not

Nancy May:

Taken off of it.

Nancy May:

Yeah, I've done that too.

Nancy May:

Absolutely.

Sylvia Lovely:

So there you go.

Nancy May:

So I have one, story that,, needs to be said before we, wrap

Nancy May:

up, but I know you've got one too.

Nancy May:

But,, we had the story of traveling Jack now traveling Jack was this

Nancy May:

container, you know, like sometimes they have round paper containers,

Nancy May:

almost like tubes for wine and.

Nancy May:

The name of the person who got traveling, Jack would go on the list and then

Nancy May:

you'd send that traveling jack with a bottle of wine to somebody else's.

Nancy May:

And apparently traveling, Jack is traveling the world.

Nancy May:

So if you see my name somewhere along the line on this long lineup of a

Nancy May:

carton that looks like a snowman called Traveling Jack, it was in our house.

Nancy May:

So you might wanna try your own traveling Jack in Kentucky.

Sylvia Lovely:

I love that.

Sylvia Lovely:

That's Oh, yeah, so, so kind, kind of weird gifts.

Sylvia Lovely:

Let me, let me get onto that.

Sylvia Lovely:

my husband's, for some reason, he got a can of tomato soup from a relative

Sylvia Lovely:

with a handkerchief.

Nancy May:

soup.

Sylvia Lovely:

A Campbell soup and it was given to him by this family member.

Sylvia Lovely:

And they were really young and I think they just didn't know.

Sylvia Lovely:

They knew he liked tomato soup, right?

Sylvia Lovely:

But Bernie's mother was a tease.

Sylvia Lovely:

So every Christmas thereafter for 10 years, he got a can of tomato

Sylvia Lovely:

soup wrapped in the handkerchief.

Sylvia Lovely:

So that was a good one.

Sylvia Lovely:

But here's one of my favorite ones is, , the corporate gift.

Sylvia Lovely:

You know, you don't look at it, you just order it and

Sylvia Lovely:

have it delivered to somebody.

Sylvia Lovely:

Right?

Sylvia Lovely:

Well, it was delivered to all the employees.

Sylvia Lovely:

And in the basket with all the fruit and meats or whatever was in it, A raw potato.

Nancy May:

Oh,

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

So they started comparing notes and everybody got a raw potato, but they

Sylvia Lovely:

were like, does it have a message?

Sylvia Lovely:

Uh, you know, is it, is it, is it a, does that mean it's a spud, I'm a dud?

Sylvia Lovely:

I mean, what does that mean?

Sylvia Lovely:

So anyway, they found out it was packed at where the packing thing was.

Sylvia Lovely:

Accidentally got a potato put in every one of them.

Sylvia Lovely:

Is that

Nancy May:

Yeah, a lot of

Nancy May:

corporate, a lot of corporations give out turkeys and hams

Nancy May:

and others at the holidays.

Nancy May:

We've seen those as well, and I have given out food as, or given food as a

Nancy May:

corporate gift in the past and one year.

Nancy May:

For a Wall Street client, I found these, you know, the, the giant Whitman's

Nancy May:

chocolates, you know, Whitman's chocolates that you get in the grocery store and

Nancy May:

you just think like old fashioned, right?

Nancy May:

It, it just reminds you of Grandma.

Nancy May:

That's it.

Nancy May:

Well, I happened to find one that was a 10 pound box, and it's huge.

Nancy May:

It's like the size of my desk, but it's only one layer.

Nancy May:

But the size alone just made me laugh hysterically.

Nancy May:

So I'll see.

Nancy May:

I thought, oh, let's see how much of a sense of humor these folks have.

Nancy May:

So I sent them this giant box and then I got a call back.

Nancy May:

with everybody was in laughter

Nancy May:

thinking they, they thought that was the best guest they had ever gotten.

Nancy May:

And they put it in the conference room and they were all

Nancy May:

like, do we just take a bite?

Nancy May:

And if we don't like it, put it back?

Nancy May:

back

Sylvia Lovely:

I love that.

Nancy May:

So, , and we found some more of them.

Nancy May:

So I've got a few folks that are gonna get some giant 10 pound

Nancy May:

boxes of old fashioned Whitman's

Sylvia Lovely:

I've never seen one of those.

Sylvia Lovely:

I've seen the compact boxes.

Sylvia Lovely:

Okay, so final story, final question.

Sylvia Lovely:

What do you get people who have everything.

Sylvia Lovely:

What would you get?

Sylvia Lovely:

Elon Musk

Sylvia Lovely:

isn't either world's

Sylvia Lovely:

first billionaire.

Sylvia Lovely:

I mean, what would you give him?

Nancy May:

I, uh, you know, um, um, moon pies right

Sylvia Lovely:

Moon pies.

Nancy May:

to the moon, Elon to the moon.

Sylvia Lovely:

How about Mars bars?

Nancy May:

Mars bars.

Nancy May:

Okay.

Nancy May:

That's a good one too.

Nancy May:

Right?

Nancy May:

So Mars a little further, but I like moon pies and Mars bars.

Nancy May:

I think we should get 'em a box of those.

Sylvia Lovely:

yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

Put us on the map.

Nancy May:

what about Bezos?

Nancy May:

What would you

Sylvia Lovely:

Oh, I don't know what to do with him.

Sylvia Lovely:

Uh, one idea was three hot sauces, mercury Mind, , mild Mercury mind, Venus

Sylvia Lovely:

Volcano or Mars meltdown with a note.

Nancy May:

I think that goes back to Bezos and Elon.

Nancy May:

We can send them to the moon doll and send them to the moon.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

So anyway, that, I don't know what you do for those guys.

Sylvia Lovely:

I mean, I,

Sylvia Lovely:

don't think I'll be asked though.

Nancy May:

no, no, and, and I I am not sure I'm gonna be going up with

Nancy May:

either one of them anytime soon.

Sylvia Lovely:

No.

Sylvia Lovely:

I'll, I'll take care of my earthly traditions first.

Nancy May:

I would agree with that.

Nancy May:

So on that note, if you are creating some ideas or, lacking

Nancy May:

ideas for gifts for the holidays, why not consider some food gifts?

Nancy May:

Why?

Nancy May:

Well, food gives carry history, right?

Nancy May:

. We talked a little bit about the history of the food cake and the Romans, so

Nancy May:

there is a tradition way back when, and the right gift is personal.

Nancy May:

It's thoughtful and it's universal because if you put thought into anything, even

Nancy May:

if it's a Whitmans chocolate box that's size of your desk, it makes you laugh.

Nancy May:

And if it's wine or just something, it doesn't matter

Nancy May:

the thought that you put into it

Sylvia Lovely:

Absolutely

Nancy May:

it versus just tossing one out

Sylvia Lovely:

Absolutely.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

I love that.

Sylvia Lovely:

I love the idea of gifting.

Sylvia Lovely:

I, you know, I've started my list, I go into my list and, it's just

Sylvia Lovely:

a wonderful time of the year.

Sylvia Lovely:

Yeah.

Sylvia Lovely:

I love it.

Nancy May:

And food gifts always come with a story.

Nancy May:

They can be funny, they can be messy, they can be nostalgic, and that's what

Nancy May:

we're all about because every meal has a story and every story has a feast, We'll

Nancy May:

see you soon and we'll hear you soon.

Nancy May:

Bye-bye.