Love, Lust, and Food Stories: Unveiling Valentine's Day Secrets

Dive into a decadent world of desire as Family Tree, Food & Stories hosts Nancy May and Sylvia Lovely unwrap the mysteries behind Valentine's Day's most seductive treats. Join chocolate expert Norma Taylor as she reveals how to get thousands of chocolate-covered strawberries out to lusting customers.
Nancy and Sylvia dive under the covers to reveal some interesting and lesser-known history and traditions of how those silk heart-shaped chocolate boxes even include a little black lace. Remember those innocent candy conversation hearts? Perhaps they were the precursor to modern-day text messaging. What do you think?
This episode is packed with a lot of fun, interesting stories, and a few tantalized revelations about legendary aphrodisiacs, including:
❤️ The truth behind chocolate's reputation as a love potion
❤️ Which legendary lover consumed 80 oysters daily for more passionate nights
❤️ The surprising connection between bananas and bees
❤️ Why strawberries became Venus's chosen fruit
❤️ The hidden meaning of avocados in ancient culture
❤️ Which romantic edible now commands a shocking $100 per dozen
❤️ The sweet secrets of honey's role in matters of the heart
This episode serves more than just chocolate and champagne — it's a feast of fascinating food history, romantic traditions, and delicious discoveries that will forever change how you think about Valentine's treats.
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Hello, everybody.
Nancy May:
It is our Valentine's Day special here at Family Tree Food and Stories.
Nancy May:
And Valentine's Day is, it's a rather interesting day.
Nancy May:
I think we all look forward to it and we all loathe it at the same time.
Nancy May:
But in any case, it is a delicious day.
Nancy May:
And there are stories, both food and family oriented.
Nancy May:
And before we got started, Sylvia and I were chatting with our guest Norma
Nancy May:
Taylor about a story, and I'll share it real quickly, that although it wasn't on
Nancy May:
Valentine's Day, but it's pretty close, that I was in college and I was dating
Nancy May:
this guy and It was Parents Weekend, my parents came out, and we all had dinner
Nancy May:
together, and my dad leans over to my date and says, She's a pretty great
Nancy May:
gal, but she's not Gina Lola Brigida.
Nancy May:
I'm like, How could you do that?
Nancy May:
on that note, This non Ginalotobrigida is opening the Valentine's Day here
Nancy May:
at Family Tree Food and Stories.
Nancy May:
So, welcome Norma and hello Sylvia!
Sylvia Lovely:
Well, hello.
Sylvia Lovely:
You're a goddess.
Sylvia Lovely:
You know, I mean, what can I say?
Nancy May:
I know.
Sylvia Lovely:
I'm too short to ever be a goddess.
Nancy May:
Well, good things come in small packages, like chocolate, right?
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, well heat enough.
Sylvia Lovely:
I bet you're not a small package anymore.
Sylvia Lovely:
But anyway, Hey, I love this holiday and I love it for a couple of reasons.
Sylvia Lovely:
One, obviously the love vibes, and Norma knows there's a candy I like
Sylvia Lovely:
for every one of the holidays, and she always would supply me with my addiction
Sylvia Lovely:
she would bring from the candy store.
Sylvia Lovely:
but I love it, one for the love vibes, but number two, here in
Sylvia Lovely:
the north country, Ms. Nancy is.
Sylvia Lovely:
It's the harbinger of spring.
Sylvia Lovely:
You know, you've had the groundhog, and he usually comes back with bad news, six
Sylvia Lovely:
more weeks of bad weather, but you get to Valentine's Day and hope spring's eternal.
Sylvia Lovely:
Okay, we can get through this.
Sylvia Lovely:
Right, Norma?
Sylvia Lovely:
We'll get through this.
Sylvia Lovely:
And we've had a very Harsh beginning to our winter up here, so we'll especially
Sylvia Lovely:
look forward to Valentine's Day.
Sylvia Lovely:
But what I want to do right now is introduce Norma and
Sylvia Lovely:
get going on our conversation.
Sylvia Lovely:
let me tell you a little bit about her and it's a big.
Sylvia Lovely:
She has been the Lexington Area Manager for Edible Magazine.
Sylvia Lovely:
I also know she was a writer and an editor.
Sylvia Lovely:
She didn't write that down on her bio, but I know that she does that.
Sylvia Lovely:
She was a contributor to Food News and Chews, and Nancy,
Sylvia Lovely:
remember, that was my radio show
Sylvia Lovely:
for years, and we ended it, but it still lives on, doesn't it, Norma?
Sylvia Lovely:
does, it lives on, you can't get rid of it.
Nancy May:
Audibly delicious.
Sylvia Lovely:
so she is also, is the Marketing and Food Safety
Sylvia Lovely:
Manager at Ruth Hunt Candies.
Sylvia Lovely:
Now that's a big deal in Kentucky.
Sylvia Lovely:
It's one with great history and everybody knows refund candies.
Sylvia Lovely:
And Norma and I know it particularly well since we worked the line, didn't we Norma?
Sylvia Lovely:
with bourbon balls.
Sylvia Lovely:
Remember the Lucy and Ethel skit
Norma Taylor:
We did.
Sylvia Lovely:
we reenacted it and now we can't find the video.
Sylvia Lovely:
So we may have to reenact that Norma,
Nancy May:
please do.
Norma Taylor:
We'll have to do that again.
Norma Taylor:
That
Sylvia Lovely:
you, you've got pull.
Sylvia Lovely:
So, you just set it up and we'll, be there.
Sylvia Lovely:
And Nancy, you might have to come up for that one.
Sylvia Lovely:
That would be fun.
Sylvia Lovely:
and finally, last but not least is her, expertise in bourbon.
Sylvia Lovely:
And I'm sure she drinks a lot of it in order to develop the expertise.
Sylvia Lovely:
You'd have to, right?
Norma Taylor:
job research,
Sylvia Lovely:
I know it's important, but we'll talk about that later
Sylvia Lovely:
because bourbon goes with what we're going to talk about here in a minute.
Sylvia Lovely:
And here's what I'd like to start with.
Sylvia Lovely:
We have to preserve our traditions, right, Nancy?
Sylvia Lovely:
We have to take care of them.
Sylvia Lovely:
We have to know that they're going to stay well and good and
Sylvia Lovely:
that, we can maintain them.
Sylvia Lovely:
And what I want you to do is pull back the curtain a little bit on the process
Sylvia Lovely:
it takes to put these delicious giant strawberries covered in luscious chocolate
Sylvia Lovely:
in front of us on Valentine's Day.
Sylvia Lovely:
But what happens?
Sylvia Lovely:
Where do we get those strawberries?
Sylvia Lovely:
Just give us a brief kind of look, behind the curtain of
Sylvia Lovely:
those delicious strawberries.
Sylvia Lovely:
Norma.
Norma Taylor:
sure.
Norma Taylor:
To start with, the berries come from either California, which produces
Norma Taylor:
about 88 percent of the berries that go throughout the United States, or during
Norma Taylor:
these colder months a lot of times Florida as well, because Florida obviously has
Norma Taylor:
the more temperate climate usually, not right now, but generally, and they
Norma Taylor:
are a big strawberry grower as well.
Norma Taylor:
So they come up from Florida.
Norma Taylor:
either California or Florida, to the factory, and you've got about
Norma Taylor:
three days, they don't last long, and particularly after you've covered
Norma Taylor:
them in chocolate, you might think, that would preserve them a little bit,
Norma Taylor:
but they start to go, pretty quickly.
Norma Taylor:
So they come in, they get washed, and they get coated.
Norma Taylor:
Now, if you're doing, I don't know, four or five cases, That's not a big deal.
Norma Taylor:
If you're doing a hundred, two hundred cases, it gets to be a big deal.
Norma Taylor:
I've literally seen the factory look like strawberry fields.
Norma Taylor:
They're everywhere.
Nancy May:
like
Nancy May:
fun.
Norma Taylor:
Oh, it is very fun.
Norma Taylor:
And, fortunately we have chocolate lines and they go down the chocolate lines.
Norma Taylor:
which is the process that covers them automatically, so you
Norma Taylor:
don't have to hand dip them.
Nancy May:
I want to go down the chocolate line.
Norma Taylor:
I with mouth open, right?
Sylvia Lovely:
Like a chocolate fountain at a party.
Norma Taylor:
So, then, obviously, pops into the boxes, and off they go.
Norma Taylor:
And, they almost always sell out.
Norma Taylor:
They're not the only one.
Norma Taylor:
Old Kentucky Chocolates makes them.
Norma Taylor:
In fact, they do them year round.
Norma Taylor:
and the big thing is really processing them quickly because they do go quickly
Norma Taylor:
and they use the big strawberries
Sylvia Lovely:
I was gonna say, they're great big ones.
Sylvia Lovely:
You don't see those in our little strawberry patches.
Norma Taylor:
no.
Norma Taylor:
And, they grow bigger in California.
Norma Taylor:
The weather's better
Norma Taylor:
I guess, but they probably get lots of good food and nutrients and great soil.
Norma Taylor:
And, some of them are almost as big as the palm of my hand.
Norma Taylor:
It's extraordinary.
Sylvia Lovely:
Has the weather ever interfered with the strawberry season?
Norma Taylor:
absolutely.
Norma Taylor:
I mean, like, right now.
Nancy May:
fires in California and snow in Florida.
Nancy May:
I
Nancy May:
mean, whoever heard of
Nancy May:
that, Hey Norma, I got a question for you.
Nancy May:
So when you're talking about chocolate covered strawberries, is there a
Nancy May:
particular, type of chocolate that's better for those strawberries that
Nancy May:
people prefer, or, like there's some chocolate that just has a stronger
Nancy May:
percentage of cocoa butter in it.
Nancy May:
What, what works best?
Norma Taylor:
typically 60 percent for the darker, and, a good, good
Norma Taylor:
percentage for milk is about 53%.
Norma Taylor:
Of course, white chocolate is, is
Nancy May:
Just fat, basically,
Norma Taylor:
yeah, it's got the flavor,
Sylvia Lovely:
It's not real chocolate, huh?
Norma Taylor:
not real talk no., so they'll use that and, if there
Norma Taylor:
are a variety, I because you're buying it, you're buying it
Norma Taylor:
literally in big pallet sized cases
Sylvia Lovely:
I bet they have to back up a ways to get ready for this
Sylvia Lovely:
onslaught of strawberries that come in,
Norma Taylor:
Oh, and in a small.
Norma Taylor:
Processing plant, everything goes to that for, three days and you just have
Norma Taylor:
to plan accordingly to get your other, inventory made ahead of time, because
Norma Taylor:
all the production goes straight to that.
Sylvia Lovely:
was really fun, to go to the factory and see candy being made.
Sylvia Lovely:
And watching Junior, who started out, I think, moving boxes.
Sylvia Lovely:
And Junior had been promoted eventually to being the cream candy expert.
Sylvia Lovely:
And we watched him as he made cream candy.
Sylvia Lovely:
I think he's since retired.
Sylvia Lovely:
But, it's just the small town Operations, which Mel Sterling
Sylvia Lovely:
is, which is where the factory is.
Sylvia Lovely:
I mean, it was just fun, Yeah.
Nancy May:
small, family owned chocolate company, See's Candies or See's Chocolates
Nancy May:
were big up by us in Massachusetts and, and that region and they're delicious.
Nancy May:
I'm not sure if they're originally from the Northeast,
Nancy May:
but they were pretty popular.
Nancy May:
but I have a a pop quiz for the both of you.
Nancy May:
So the pop quiz is, do you know why strawberries are
Nancy May:
considered seductive fruits?
Sylvia Lovely:
Well, heart shaped.
Sylvia Lovely:
How, how's that?
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh,
Norma Taylor:
to Venus, who was the goddess of love, due to the red color.
Norma Taylor:
and yeah, that goes back to ancient times.
Nancy May:
Oh, you're cheating.
Nancy May:
Well, I'm going to give you one other little thing, which I didn't know about,
Nancy May:
and I thought this was rather interesting, is that you know how strawberries
Nancy May:
have all those little seeds on them?
Nancy May:
Yeah.
Nancy May:
Yeah.
Nancy May:
And there are actually some devices out there that you
Nancy May:
can buy, like kitchen gadgets.
Nancy May:
You know how we all have
Nancy May:
kitchen gadgets in our drawer because they were cool and we've never used them?
Nancy May:
Well, there actually is a strawberry deceiter.
Nancy May:
takes all those
Nancy May:
little seeds out.
Nancy May:
Yeah, uh, you know, I can deal with the strawberry seeds.
Nancy May:
It's fine.
Nancy May:
But apparently, the strawberry and all those little seeds were
Nancy May:
considered to be a sign of fertility.
Nancy May:
But when you're of a certain
Sylvia Lovely:
that.
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah,
Nancy May:
care about that.
Nancy May:
So
Norma Taylor:
across that.
Norma Taylor:
Okay.
Sylvia Lovely:
well, you know, but I wondered why when I saw that.
Sylvia Lovely:
like almost making something up.
Sylvia Lovely:
I mean, I don't know.
Sylvia Lovely:
You know, little seeds.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, seeds.
Sylvia Lovely:
Okay.
Sylvia Lovely:
Got it.
Sylvia Lovely:
Duh.
Nancy May:
yeah, okay, Sibyl, you're a little slow this morning.
Nancy May:
I
Sylvia Lovely:
I'm a little slow.
Sylvia Lovely:
It's cold up here.
Sylvia Lovely:
Ah, yeah, so, so yeah, so, strawberries and all the things that they represent,
Sylvia Lovely:
um, You know, everything.
Sylvia Lovely:
And then we go to chocolate.
Sylvia Lovely:
Norma, you're a chocolatier.
Sylvia Lovely:
I you know a lot about chocolate.
Sylvia Lovely:
You made several appearances on Food News and Chews talking about chocolate.
Sylvia Lovely:
Tell us about chocolate.
Sylvia Lovely:
Because one of the things I want to note is chocolate's just not
Sylvia Lovely:
plain old Hershey bars anymore.
Sylvia Lovely:
your chips can come in all these varying cacao percentages.
Nancy May:
And
Nancy May:
chocolate is considered a health food now.
Nancy May:
Like who would have thought of that?
Nancy May:
Like, hello, my hips are loving you.
Sylvia Lovely:
yeah, because it's rich.
Sylvia Lovely:
Now, I try to gravitate when I'm doing my chocolate chip cookies and stuff.
Sylvia Lovely:
I try to go to the 70%, but it's just not quite the same.
Sylvia Lovely:
talk us a little bit about chocolate and how you came to
Sylvia Lovely:
become an expert in chocolate.
Norma Taylor:
Well, the higher percentage of cacao in the
Norma Taylor:
chocolate, the lower percentage of fat solids and sugars and milk.
Norma Taylor:
So that's why it does taste is sweet at the chocolate you were
Norma Taylor:
just traditionally used to.
Norma Taylor:
It might be the old Hershey bar, but it is definitely better for you.
Norma Taylor:
That's what's behind all of that.
Norma Taylor:
It is considered an aphrodisiac because it contains chemicals.
Norma Taylor:
Like, and this is a long one, pH lital Amin,
Sylvia Lovely:
Ooh,
Norma Taylor:
uh,
Sylvia Lovely:
Scientist Norma, I forgot to put that on your resume.
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah.
Norma Taylor:
kind of comes with the territory a little bit.
Norma Taylor:
and that's kind of a per perfect serotonin.
Norma Taylor:
and does, trigger pleasure and wellbeing in the brain, similar to
Norma Taylor:
those when you're falling in love.
Norma Taylor:
So they stay but it is, the sensual pleasure of eating it and
Norma Taylor:
the way that it's been presented over the years, obviously.
Nancy May:
So I had actually heard that there wasn't, so I'm
Nancy May:
going to be the contrarian here.
Nancy May:
that there was no scientific background on chocolate being an aphrodisiac,
Nancy May:
but it goes back to 500 BCE.
Nancy May:
When the Mayans used it in wedding rituals.
Nancy May:
So maybe that has to do with it.
Nancy May:
if there is some scientific background, great.
Nancy May:
I'm all for eating chocolate and, and I will be
Nancy May:
more
Nancy May:
sensual, right?
Norma Taylor:
Well, right?
Nancy May:
But if not, maybe it's all about hooking up,
Sylvia Lovely:
Or, maybe, we don't know how far back it may have gone,
Sylvia Lovely:
but the marketing of chocolate to become the thing, But it is rich, and
Sylvia Lovely:
I think that's kind of, abandon your spirits and eat this really rich stuff.
Sylvia Lovely:
And
Nancy May:
What melts in your mouth.
Nancy May:
Okay.
Sylvia Lovely:
It's creamy.
Sylvia Lovely:
So it just makes you feel good, And isn't that what sex is supposed to do?
Sylvia Lovely:
So there you go.
Nancy May:
It's supposed to do that.
Sylvia Lovely:
And so there you go.
Sylvia Lovely:
hey, Nancy, there was a story about, Cadbury, which is one of the famous
Sylvia Lovely:
inventors of all things chocolate, right?
Sylvia Lovely:
I mean, I love their bunnies that come at Easter
Sylvia Lovely:
And,
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, yeah.
Nancy May:
The bunny that clucks like a chicken.
Nancy May:
Yeah, I like that bunny.
Sylvia Lovely:
And those eggs that have the little yellow center.
Sylvia Lovely:
But anyway, we're back to Valentine's.
Sylvia Lovely:
So let's talk about Valentine's.
Nancy May:
Cadbury, so yeah, he was a Brit.
Nancy May:
if you're listening and you're British, please don't take this
Nancy May:
personally, but I don't consider the British to be overly romantic.
Nancy May:
I don't know why.
Nancy May:
it's that stiff upper lip thing.
Nancy May:
I think of the French or the Italian or even the Greek, right?
Nancy May:
so Cadbury, Richard Cadbury, in 1861, started making chocolate
Nancy May:
boxes with cupids and roses on them, on the covers and the top of the
Nancy May:
boxes, and they became a huge hit.
Nancy May:
So maybe, what happens behind closed doors in Buckingham Palace is
Sylvia Lovely:
more
Nancy May:
know about,
Nancy May:
right?
Nancy May:
And Chocolate Kisses.
Nancy May:
So we have, the Kisses with Hershey, Milton Hershey in
Nancy May:
1907, which he started that.
Nancy May:
But Russell Stouffer.
Nancy May:
So this guy really sort blew my mind a little bit.
Nancy May:
But Russell Stouffer, he really took Cadbury on the challenge, and actually
Nancy May:
created the heart shaped box in 1923, and that little devil added also black
Nancy May:
satin and black lace to his boxes,
Sylvia Lovely:
No,
Nancy May:
know, right?
Sylvia Lovely:
that's sexy.
Nancy May:
I want to know what Mrs. Stouffer felt about that one.
Sylvia Lovely:
Can you say that fast several times?
Nancy May:
to know what Mrs. Stouffer felt about that one.
Sylvia Lovely:
Have either of you been to Hershey Park?
Nancy May:
I have been,
Sylvia Lovely:
Ah, the big giant kisses and all of that stuff.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, it's so fun.
Sylvia Lovely:
Well, yeah, you would have had to have been there, Norma, to be,
Sylvia Lovely:
to get your PhD in chocolate, you
Norma Taylor:
I was there, actually, a long time
Norma Taylor:
ago.
Norma Taylor:
I but it was still a lot of fun.
Nancy May:
So, speaking of going through the tunnel of chocolate love at Hershey's,
Nancy May:
we're going to take a quick break here.
Nancy May:
How's that for the moment,
Sylvia Lovely:
sounds perfect.
Nancy May:
So, we left off in the tunnel of chocolate love at Hershey Park.
Sylvia Lovely:
open, lapping it up,
Nancy May:
if that doesn't sound sexy, I don't know why, but
Sylvia Lovely:
with a glass of bourbon on the
Nancy May:
Are you a glass of bourbon or a glass
Sylvia Lovely:
Although, let's not leave out wine, you
Sylvia Lovely:
know?
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, I'm a wino.
Sylvia Lovely:
Normally, you may be a bourbonite, but red wine, which is supposed
Sylvia Lovely:
to have all those same kind of properties that chocolate does.
Sylvia Lovely:
Uh, just make you feel warm and loved, right?
Sylvia Lovely:
Are
Nancy May:
Well, and wine and chocolate, I guess the chocolate's supposed to be
Nancy May:
more enhanced in the flavor of wine.
Nancy May:
But there are some really interesting things that I think we've all
Nancy May:
sort of grown up over Valentine's Day, especially as young kids.
Nancy May:
So remember those little confection hearts that have
Sylvia Lovely:
Mm hmm.
Sylvia Lovely:
Mm
Nancy May:
Right?
Sylvia Lovely:
love them.
Nancy May:
They were actually started by the New England Confection
Nancy May:
Company and otherwise known as NECO.
Nancy May:
I didn't know that NECO actually stood for New England Confection Company.
Sylvia Lovely:
I didn't either.
Sylvia Lovely:
And those little NECOs are wonderful.
Nancy May:
Right, well, Necco sold out to another bigger company in, 2018.
Nancy May:
So, I guess we get more of them, but apparently there's up to 80
Nancy May:
little sayings on those things.
Nancy May:
I think my box always got the same one, and, you pass those little chocolate,
Nancy May:
wait, not chocolate, but the little candy
Nancy May:
boxes around to
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
They love that.
Sylvia Lovely:
And they've changed every year.
Sylvia Lovely:
They do go through a process, I believe, where they review what
Sylvia Lovely:
the messages are, which is so it's kind of cultural traditions coming
Sylvia Lovely:
to life on tiny little hearts.
Sylvia Lovely:
I, you know, and I don't know that they do, but I do think
Sylvia Lovely:
they do a review periodically.
Nancy May:
they have the traditional ones.
Nancy May:
Be mine, call me, kiss me, love you, miss you with a you kind of thing.
Nancy May:
I think they perfected the art of texting before we knew what texting was
Sylvia Lovely:
They did.
Sylvia Lovely:
remember sharing those little things with folks.
Sylvia Lovely:
I
Nancy May:
Oh, absolutely.
Nancy May:
just before we moved from Connecticut down to Florida, I was going through
Nancy May:
boxes of stuff and my mom saved all sorts of things from when we were kids.
Nancy May:
It turns out that she actually saved a valentine that I got from her.
Nancy May:
From a friend of mine, who I still know today, since kindergarten.
Nancy May:
Her and her husband actually introduced Bob and I, so I still have Diane's
Nancy May:
Valentine, which is kind of neat.
Nancy May:
Although it's not food, but it is a heart, and it's a card, and
Nancy May:
I think that's kind of sweet.
Sylvia Lovely:
all I have are memories, but,
Nancy May:
Well, those
Nancy May:
last two.
Nancy May:
And what about oysters?
Nancy May:
I mean, talking about memories.
Nancy May:
we talk about foods and traditions.
Nancy May:
We're sort of got to get back to those little things.
Nancy May:
But oysters are kind of hard.
Nancy May:
I don't know if they do chocolate covered oysters.
Nancy May:
That kind of sounds disgusting,
Nancy May:
doesn't
Nancy May:
it?
Sylvia Lovely:
does
Sylvia Lovely:
them.
Norma Taylor:
ever seen that.
Norma Taylor:
No.
Norma Taylor:
Oh
Norma Taylor:
yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
However, they are doing very interesting things these days, with
Sylvia Lovely:
foods like combining bacon with ice cream.
Norma Taylor:
Oh yeah.
Nancy May:
but I want to get back to the oysters.
Sylvia Lovely:
always go
Sylvia Lovely:
back to the
Nancy May:
So oysters.
Nancy May:
did you know that a Giacomo Casanova, first of all, I didn't know that
Nancy May:
Casanova's first name, I didn't know Casanova even had a first name,
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but it was
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Giacomo, right?
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Giacomo,
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Casanova, he ate a, no, it doesn't, like, hey, Gio, right?
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Or
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, Tio.
Nancy May:
maybe you just call him
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Jock.
Sylvia Lovely:
maybe if you have the Italian accent, as in, um,
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yeah, uh, there you go.
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You can kind of see him, dressed up in kind of a lounge lizard look, coming
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up and using a pickup line on you at a
Nancy May:
Right, we got some pickup lines too, but he used to eat 80 oysters a day.
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I mean, oh, that sounds kind of disgusting.
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But, talk about pickup lines.
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Can we, can we talk about those?
Nancy May:
I've
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, let's talk about pick up lines.
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We might pick something up.
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If I want to sneak out and go to a bar at night, I need to know those, you
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right?
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If I want to pick up my husband, think we're MINT to be
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Meant to be together.
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Are you a donut?
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Because I find you ado able.
Nancy May:
How about a date, darling?
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, that is too cute.
Sylvia Lovely:
We should get coffee because I like you a latte.
Nancy May:
right, these are really bad dad jokes.
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Can you
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imagine your parents using these pickup lines?
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I certainly can't.
Norma Taylor:
Ah, no.
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I have to say, in fact, if any guy used any of these things on
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me at a bar, I think I'd walk around.
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I'd go to the other side of the bar.
Sylvia Lovely:
So, yeah, you've got all of those.
Sylvia Lovely:
Hey, I want to talk about honey for a moment.
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obviously, it's kind of Valentine ish.
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It's on all the lists, and it's a name you call somebody that you're fond of, right?
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Boron.
Sylvia Lovely:
That sounds awful.
Sylvia Lovely:
That sounds like a chemical you don't want, right?
Sylvia Lovely:
Boron,
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which regulates.
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Estrogen, and Testosterone, and I'm like Boron?
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isn't that odd?
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Uh, because you know, usually you can't pronounce these names, but you
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can pronounce Boron, and just imagine.
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But, now, you and Bob were bee parents at one time, you said, and
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then you told me something that robbed me of my will to live, that
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the commercial honeys Are sometimes not what you think you're getting.
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So, as I say, we were bad bee parents.
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we tried very hard, but our bees died.
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They flew away.
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They swarmed.
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They got eaten by mice.
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They got eaten by bugs.
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And yeah, you know, my, yeah, yeah, but, speaking of, of just quick foods that
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bees don't like, because a banana is also considered a rather seductive food,
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I wonder why.
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Don't tell anybody,
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right?
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to say that.
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But if you eat a banana and you go into the hive, it
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actually creates an alarm signal.
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So one year, I opened up the hive.
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It was like the week before Christmas.
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I had had a banana on some cereal that morning.
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I didn't even think about it.
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It was the end of the day.
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And the bees are all quiet in wintertime up here.
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Because, you know, they want to stay warm.
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I opened the hive and I didn't have any bee contraptions on And I put my head
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over the hive, looking in to see if we could find the queen and make sure
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that she was there and safe and warm.
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And All these million little eyeballs are looking up at you.
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A bee came out and stung me just right in the
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, ouch.
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Yes, my face blew up 24 to 48 hours later.
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I called the doctor and he said, you got stung by a honeybee.
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And this is December and he's client and I said, yes.
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And he said, how do you know?
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I said, because I did this, I stuck my head in the hive
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, Nancy.
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He's like, okay, why did you do that?
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But but bees back to the bee thing.
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So commercial, They produce a large amount, and in order to get your bees
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going in the springtime, when you've got your, they call it a new, a new, a new
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hive, um, they don't necessarily start producing honey very quickly on their own.
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They need a little help, so you put sugar water on the hive, so there's
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your first batch of honey out of a
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new hive.
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It's kind of watered down with regular granular or powdered sugar and water.
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So you'll see the difference.
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You'll taste the difference when, a new crop comes out on your
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own, if you're creating your own bees, and later on as it starts
Sylvia Lovely:
Hmm.
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all of the pollen from in the area, but it's kind of interesting.
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So,
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Well, that is, that is.
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So, I got to be careful about my honey, because I want the good stuff,
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Get your, make sure it's local honey.
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Do not, yeah, it should be within 25 to no more than 50 miles from
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where you are, but really 25
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and I try to do that, and there's a lot more of that available, too.
Sylvia Lovely:
you know, we are sort of in a golden age, and it'll probably get better, of food.
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More choices.
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Sometimes so many you can't stand it, like chocolate chips.
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I mean, you can stand in front of the counter for an hour and try
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to figure out which one you want.
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There's chili peppers.
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Well, chili is considered a seductive food for spicy and
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you're raising your heart and excitement and pomegranate, right?
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The love apple, they called it.
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I don't know why they called it a love apple, because it's so hard to
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get those darn things out, right?
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Those little seeds.
Norma Taylor:
Mm-hmm
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Edible Flowers.
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I asked a friend the other day, I said, so what would you add to the show?
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And she says, how about Candy Underwear?
Nancy May:
Well, did Norma, did, did they serve that at your, your candy store?
Sylvia Lovely:
That's in the back room, right, Nora?
Norma Taylor:
Yeah.
Norma Taylor:
Now
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she, she can't reveal that on a national
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podcast.
Norma Taylor:
that's, I think,
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A T M
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that's like in the old blockbusters, you had to go to
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a special room to get the stuff.
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I won't say the good stuff, but you know.
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Hey, how about avocados?
Sylvia Lovely:
Nancy, are we allowed to say the
Sylvia Lovely:
Aztec translation?
Nancy May:
We can say whatever we want.
Nancy May:
It's our show.
Sylvia Lovely:
It's a translation for the Aztecs was testicles
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pendulous avocados.
Sylvia Lovely:
I love that.
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And then edible flowers.
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So, as long as we're talking about expensive in Valentine's Day,
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everything seems to be like, overly top as far as it goes from that.
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And when the average cost of a dozen roses in 2025 now is at $94.99, you
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know, it's like, Roses are edible.
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Can you imagine, you come,
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actual petals are,
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yeah, oh yeah, absolutely, you can do all sorts of things with roses, but
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can you imagine you get a dozen roses from your lover, your husband, they come home
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and they see you eating the roses, I like, you just ate a hundred dollars worth of
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flowers?
Sylvia Lovely:
that's better than steak, I guess.
Nancy May:
I don't know, you would think so, I guess, I'd be a cow.
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
Hey, one of the more interesting ones is garlic, That's supposed to be
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for some reason.
Sylvia Lovely:
Well,
Nancy May:
you're Italian.
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, it has a high allicin, A L L I S O N, allicin, and
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yeah, so that's how you pronounce it.
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Garlic.
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It's thought to increase blood flow to sexual organs.
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You could say that, right?
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Thereby potentially boosting libido in both men and
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women.
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But
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can do
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can you imagine garlic?
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Because it would almost be a turnoff, right?
Nancy May:
Yeah, I'd have to put a clothespin on my nose and be like,
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Oh, hello, it's nice to meet you.
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I've met you before I'm in bed with you too.
Sylvia Lovely:
Nancy, I know that you've got a strawberry salsa recipe,
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but I wanted to ask Norma a couple of questions I want to go back to
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the candy store industry in general, because we love to go to a candy store.
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There's something traditional about every holiday going into whatever
Sylvia Lovely:
you're, you know, local candy store is, and Nancy, you had one in Connecticut,
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And
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there's, every state has one, and I went in at Christmas time, and guess
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what I found in Old Kentucky Chocolates?
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I found a horse's butt.
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That was
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solid chocolate.
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Did you see that?
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I bought them as gag gifts for my boys.
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And on New Year's Eve at near midnight, we made the official award of being
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the horse's butt of the year awards.
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you can use that to break
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up with your lover on Valentine's Day,
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah, you get
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that horse's butt.
Sylvia Lovely:
A horse's butt.
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But what's the future of candy stores?
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Are they going the way of a lot of things?
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Because the grocery stores are now selling everything, right?
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Are they healthy?
Sylvia Lovely:
Are our candy stores that we love to go to healthy?
Norma Taylor:
seem to be healthy to me, and it depends on the type of candy
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store, but I think, particularly like the Steve's and the gourmet chocolates.
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Torres and Brooklyn has a fabulous store, Norman Love in Florida I
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think what's going to be impacting is how much chocolate they do and
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the price of chocolate, because the price of chocolate continues to rise.
Norma Taylor:
The availability of chocolate continues to decrease, and climate
Norma Taylor:
change is figured in there.
Norma Taylor:
Chocolate's a very fragile crop, so that can have some impact.
Norma Taylor:
But I think, to me, the, the candy store and, is like Starbucks,
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah.
Norma Taylor:
in general, it's, it's a treat.
Norma Taylor:
And everybody can participate.
Norma Taylor:
And so I think for that reason, they'll probably hang around where other, other
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
They bring, life to the phrase kid in a candy store.
Norma Taylor:
They really, do.
Sylvia Lovely:
you are.
Sylvia Lovely:
You're a
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kid
Norma Taylor:
really do.
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if it's Cs, which is strictly candy, or if it's something like Replant, which
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is, more notions as well as candy, as
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well as, other things, I think people really enjoy just Coming in,
Sylvia Lovely:
I do.
Sylvia Lovely:
They're
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Well, I think there's the nostalgia of the candy
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store, too, as you grow older.
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Those of us who are, let's say over 40, you probably remember
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riding your bicycle down
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to the, the local store and getting the, the five cent candy, well, or penny candy,
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Candy.
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anymore.
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But even still, the, you know, the wax lips or
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the, you know, The little wax soda bottles or even, even just bubble gum that
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you
Sylvia Lovely:
Okay.
Sylvia Lovely:
I gotta weigh in on this.
Sylvia Lovely:
I saw them in a small town in Kentucky just a week ago.
Sylvia Lovely:
Maysville, Kentucky.
Sylvia Lovely:
They sell candy cigarettes.
Nancy May:
Oh my
Norma Taylor:
Oh, I've seen those years ago.
Sylvia Lovely:
Candy cigarettes.
Sylvia Lovely:
No, no, they're just these
Norma Taylor:
Oh, these are,
Sylvia Lovely:
powder candies
Sylvia Lovely:
that
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are.
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compressed.
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah.
Nancy May:
you can be, a ten year old vamp
Sylvia Lovely:
Yeah.
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for Valentine's Day.
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I talked myself out of it.
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And give your boyfriend or your girlfriend
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while you're smoking your candy cigarette the candy hearts with the text me
Sylvia Lovely:
There you go.
Sylvia Lovely:
Make a package and then your chocolate covered strawberries and all of that.
Sylvia Lovely:
But you have a recipe for us, don't
Nancy May:
I do have a recipe.
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So talking about chocolate, or not even chocolate, but strawberries,
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because strawberries seem to be like one of the main foods.
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That we love around Valentine's Day.
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And a number of years ago, Bob and I were invited through, friends of his.
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Actually, it was his old high school girlfriend and her husband.
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So how romantic is that one?
Nancy May:
We won't go there.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh
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Actually, she was lovely, uh, or is lovely.
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we went to a vineyard called Pelletier Vineyards.
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in, Niagara on the Lake.
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And, of course, Niagara Falls is considered romantic, and it was cold,
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so I don't know how romantic it was.
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But we had this chef's dinner, and it was fabulous, where you're able
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to go behind the scenes, into the kitchens, just a small amount of
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people, and you could ask questions.
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Well, one of the samples or things that they had created specifically
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for the small group of us was this strawberry salsa, and it was delicious.
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Oh, and they placed it on just a little piece of endive.
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So the, the spice of the endive and the strawberries, and here's how you make it.
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It's very easy to do.
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You dice up a bunch of strawberries.
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You add shallots.
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I would say percentage wise, I'm not necessarily a measurer.
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So I'm probably, an old Italian grandma in a past life, but not being a grandmother
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or Italian, I don't know where that
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came
Sylvia Lovely:
You were Gina, Lola Bridge today
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in a previously, Yeah, Yeah.
Sylvia Lovely:
There you go.
Sylvia Lovely:
She'll be a recurring theme, I think.
Nancy May:
Right.
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So you take the strawberries, you dice the shallots, you take some fresh
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mint, you rip the mint, you don't cut it because the ripped mint actually
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exposes the oils a little bit more so.
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A little splash of ice wine.
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For those of you who don't know what ice wine is, ice wine is when they
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allow a certain amount of grapes to actually freeze on the vine and
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they increase the sweetness of it.
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So, you splash that on there, it's, you don't get a lot of it in the winter,
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every year, and not every vineyard produces it, and then you add a little
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chili pepper, just to add a little bit of spice, and some salt and pepper to taste.
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Now, that was the chef's recipe, and was excellent, however, this
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is what I would do, because I can never leave well enough alone.
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I would add just a little bit of balsamic vinegar, add that little
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spice, or maybe even a little lemon.
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To give,
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some
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acidity to it and just bring some of these things out.
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So that is my recipe for that.
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And we'll put it in the episode notes or the show notes, but it's really so good.
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And maybe you want to drizzle a little champagne chocolate on top of it too.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, why not?
Sylvia Lovely:
It reminds me, of strawberry, that are out there a lot
Nancy May:
Right?
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But it's just a little
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bit, so if you've got it on a piece of endive, you can feed it to your lover.
Sylvia Lovely:
Oh, so sweet.
Sylvia Lovely:
So sweet.
Nancy May:
On that note, how about we wrap up this show?
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Because honestly, I don't think we want to keep everybody away from the
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person that they love for too long.
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And that said, have a little bit more chocolate, a little bit more strawberries,
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perhaps some champagne along the way.
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And yes, continue.
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Oh, wine, right.
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And if you haven't gotten everything else, go back to the beginning of this
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episode with Norma, Sylvia, and myself, and have a wonderful Valentine's Day.
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Take
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care, be well, and ciao, bye bye.