Cookbooks That Built America And Why We Still Love Them Today!

From Monasteries to The Joy of Cooking and Martha Stewart: Why We’re Obsessed with Collecting and Keeping Them
How many cookbooks do you own?
And here’s the real question… do you actually cook from them?
In this episode of Family Tree Food & Stories, Nancy May and Sylvia Lovely trace and share the fascinating history, evolution, and survival of cookbooks in America. You’ll learn why these books have survived wars, depressions, church basements, and even now, the internet.
Cookbooks didn’t begin as cozy kitchen companions. The earliest versions weren’t even written for home cooks — they were records for palace kitchens and monasteries. Instructions were vague. “Cook until done.” You were expected to already know.
Then “mom” entered the picture.
In this episode of Family Tree Food & Stories, Nancy and Sylvia dig deeper into how Amelia Simmons’ American Cookery helped define a uniquely American food identity using local ingredients like cornmeal. How Fannie Farmer and the Boston Cooking School Cookbook introduced scientific precision and standardized measurements. And how Irma Rombauer self-published The Joy of Cooking during the Great Depression, creating a cookbook to save her own family from starvation, which has become one of the most influential cookbooks of all time.
Key Takeaways:
- Wartime rationing cookbooks that reshaped American cooking
- Church and Junior League cookbooks, as fundraisers, were among the earliest places where women’s voices appeared in print without a man’s approval.
- How celebrity cookbooks from chefs like Jacques Pépin have become storytelling time capsules
Cookbooks are not just instruction manuals; they’ve become:
- Cultural records.
- Family archives.
- Story books.
This episode blends cookbook history, American food culture, women’s publishing history, Depression-era resilience, wartime cooking, and family recipe traditions into one simple idea: Cookbooks create more than meals; they build family, communities, and connection across their pages.
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#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: It's not bad, it's just
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Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah, there
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: some great response from our listeners, so thank
Speaker:you for sharing your comments with us.
Speaker:But we're always trying to improve because, every recipe can just be
Speaker:tweaked a little bit more, maybe with an idea or an extra glass of wine.
Speaker:Thank you, Julia Childs.
Speaker:But this episode.
Speaker:I wanna start with a question to our dear listeners and followers.
Speaker:I sound like an episode of Bridgeton, but my question is,
Speaker:how many cookbooks do you own and do you actually cook from them?
Speaker:Because this show is all about cookbooks and the importance of instruction manuals.
Speaker:Most of us need at least one or two in our house or in our kitchen, and
Speaker:probably not much more, but we keep buying them and we've inherited them.
Speaker:. And they live in our kitchen, that they cookbooks live and breathe
Speaker:in our kitchen, at least in mine.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: About you, Sylvia?
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: You know, you don't treat cookbooks
Speaker:like other books, but in my case, I don't have a huge amount.
Speaker:The last cookbook I bought was Al Ruker.
Speaker:He was in town, you know, the weather guy on a whatever, whichever one he's on.
Speaker:and that was interesting.
Speaker:We're gonna talk about that a little bit later, about celebrity cookbooks
Speaker:And I guess the only other one I acquired recently was about, there
Speaker:was a famous restaurant in Savannah and my friend sent me that it's,
Speaker:I'll have to get the name of that one.
Speaker:It was so cool.
Speaker:But we don't mind the stains and notes and the margins of
Speaker:the cookbooks that we love.
Speaker:In fact.
Speaker:The one that I got with my air fryer is got the pages all bent over and
Speaker:stains and all that kinda stuff.
Speaker:You know, for my part I grew up in a, what I'm gonna call, and we're
Speaker:gonna talk about this later too, what might be called a primitive home.
Speaker:There were no cookbooks, but that's a thing, absolutely a thing.
Speaker:It's just where ideas and recipes were passed down.
Speaker:And my parents were raised in the hollers of Eastern Kentucky which
Speaker:is an interesting place where people really have to be very self-sufficient.
Speaker:And they grew everything and they just made up things and it was handed down.
Speaker:But I always remember talking to my father who would protest when
Speaker:someone would say, wow, you must have been hungry when you were young.
Speaker:He knew, he replied with pride.
Speaker:No, we ate real good.
Speaker:And so that was without recipes and you know that unless they
Speaker:were handed down, which they were, and they grew their own food.
Speaker:So that was sort of my perspective from a, history of my family.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: I'm not sure that we really.
Speaker:Actually need to cook all the time from cookbooks.
Speaker:Although I have a dear friend that I've grown up with, Diane, and she is very good
Speaker:and very specific at following a recipe.
Speaker:I'm very bad at following recipes.
Speaker:I'm like, oh, it said that, but I don't have that, so I'll try this.
Speaker:And, oh, it said a little bit of garlic.
Speaker:Maybe I'll put like a little bit more than garlic and I'll throw
Speaker:some rosemary and see what happens.
Speaker:But that's how I cook.
Speaker:However, on the cookbook front.
Speaker:were in a new house as most people know, and we built the house,
Speaker:but the kitchen island, I insisted that there was a space at the end
Speaker:of the island for two shelves for cookbooks, and they are totally filled.
Speaker:with my mom's cookbook, which I have right here with us, as you can hear
Speaker:everything moving things around.
Speaker:A make it now bake It later, cookbook that.
Speaker:Interestingly enough, the type in there is all handwritten and
Speaker:printed, so it feels like it's.
Speaker:mom cookbook.
Speaker:Anyway, my mother loved those cookbooks and I can't even
Speaker:remember going to the store.
Speaker:There was a little gift shop in Marion, Massachusetts that had all these
Speaker:particular kind of cookbooks on the brand, make it now, bake it later, and she would
Speaker:go through and which one she had and which one she didn't have, and what one
Speaker:she liked and which one she didn't like.
Speaker:And she always cooked something out of it, and every single time they were great.
Speaker:But mom also had a joy of cooking cookbook, which
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: yeah, we'll talk about that too.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: And my sister got that one.
Speaker:So I, one year at a church, rummage Fair, which I love those things
Speaker:because you never know what sort of treasures you're gonna get.
Speaker:Found a joy of cooking that had belonged to somebody and it felt like a mom book.
Speaker:I have somebody else's mom's joy of cooking book.
Speaker:I have no idea who they are, but
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: I have an ambition to write a cookbook,
Speaker:even though I'm not real familiar.
Speaker:I own a restaurant and I don't know, people just don't get it that when,
Speaker:as you age, you don't need to eat as much as restaurants feed you.
Speaker:So we always split and we always bring something home.
Speaker:So I'm a take home queen, and then I repurpose my leftovers and I mash
Speaker:everything together in kind of a leftover.
Speaker:Thing and it tastes really good.
Speaker:So a leftover cookbook.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:There's
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: we did a show on leftovers, so
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: yeah, so there
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: if you haven't heard that one, we'll put the
Speaker:episode in the show notes as well.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: yeah, Well,
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: I like that on leftover cookbooks.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: And they were always a clue to lifestyle too, and
Speaker:how you were raised and how you were, reflective of what happened in your
Speaker:kitchen as the way you live your life.
Speaker:just like my describing my family and you describing your family, we're all
Speaker:different and we all have some form of.
Speaker:Cookbook in our head, whether it's, so we make 'em up from other recipes
Speaker:and transform them into something else if they're like leftovers.
Speaker:So it's sort of a, an ethos of cookbook ery.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: But you have some history on cookbooks.
Speaker:'cause I found this fascinating about how the early cookbooks came about.
Speaker:And I honestly, I didn't even think about the early history of cookbooks until we
Speaker:really started to dive or dig into this episode and doing a little research.
Speaker:So why don't you share some of that information?
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah.
Speaker:The earliest cookbooks weren't really written for home cooks.
Speaker:I suspect they were over the open fire or big cauldrons.
Speaker:You can see the image in your mind.
Speaker:they were doing what my family did.
Speaker:It was just from handing down.
Speaker:The cookbooks were written for professionals, the palace kitchens,
Speaker:the monasteries, and a lot of food comes outta monasteries.
Speaker:By the way, if you've noticed that Christmas time fudge and all kinds of
Speaker:things.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: monk beer.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: The Monk beer.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And they already assumed that you knew what you were doing.
Speaker:So the instructions were pretty vague to the point of absurdity.
Speaker:Take some butter cook until done.
Speaker:I love that one.
Speaker:They weren't teaching tools.
Speaker:They were records.
Speaker:They were records that we keep of the times.
Speaker:And you know, like I said, home cooks relied on family tradition rather than,
Speaker:recipe books and that kind of thing.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: So not as precise, but they were survival mechanisms
Speaker:teaching a skill and handing them down from one generation to the other.
Speaker:I've got images of not necessarily a mom, but it could be an aide or
Speaker:somebody else that's sitting there with a young child showing them how.
Speaker:How to cook and prepare things, or even the boys were learning how to prepare wild
Speaker:game and take care of those things, but it really is a way To look at history
Speaker:and then we evolved into church cookbooks and women's clubs and the junior league
Speaker:and the cookbook talk about survival.
Speaker:The cookbooks became a fundraiser, so food became a different
Speaker:type of survival mechanism.
Speaker:In the documentation of these tools really is what they were And
Speaker:That in itself tells you so much about the generations 'cause you don't see cookbooks
Speaker:being created by communities like today, at least like I remember as a kid and to
Speaker:have your name and your recipe selected for a church cook cookbook or a community
Speaker:cookbook wasn't an honor because now your name was in print and it was a big deal.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: You know, you made me think of a cookbook we do
Speaker:have that I'd forgotten about was Ruby.
Speaker:Ruby was a country woman from Moorhead, Kentucky.
Speaker:If you're familiar with Kentucky, it's about an hour and a half.
Speaker:It's actually a pretty sophisticated community now, a home of Morehead
Speaker:State University and some really nice medical facilities.
Speaker:But Ruby was a home cook and she gave Bernie.
Speaker:Her cookbook for Christmas one year.
Speaker:So we still have Ruby and I kept that one.
Speaker:I left some of them behind, gave them to my daughter-in-law.
Speaker:But Hey, I gotta tell you another thing about cookbooks too.
Speaker:I think it's so cute that often that they're spiraled.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:But, and you know, I can use 'em real easily where you can
Speaker:just bend back to the page.
Speaker:But they were written a lot by women.
Speaker:And it was one of the ways, an only place where their voice appeared in print.
Speaker:Ha, love that.
Speaker:We didn't know that we were holding up the banner for women, did we?
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: They became famous there versus today
Speaker:where the chefs are
Speaker:predominantly, the big names that they're out there that you hear
Speaker:about are men other than, Martha and Ina, who we see everywhere You
Speaker:know I hate to say that.
Speaker:I'm not sure.
Speaker:I consider them cooks.
Speaker:Maybe ina garden, she's definitely a creative cook and a caterer
Speaker:but not cooks in the sense of, oh James Beard, who , has a very
Speaker:interesting and colorful background.
Speaker:Or Bobby Flay or some of the others that you think about
Speaker:that are French or Jacques,
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah.
Speaker:The personal memories though and like I said I wish I had more
Speaker:cookbooks to talk about, but I did remember Ruby, but I always think
Speaker:of uh, Fred and Wilma Flintstone.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: No no telling what they did, but that may
Speaker:have been where rock soup originated.
Speaker:Now there's a simple recipe, you wanna
Speaker:hear it.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: rock soup.
Speaker:Did you as a kid ever the book called Stone Soup?
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: Remember that one?
Speaker:know it was not a cookbook necessarily, but
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: It was a recipe,
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: was, it was
Speaker:a
Speaker:recipe.
Speaker:But you mentioned that you didn't really have too many cookbooks in, in your
Speaker:house, or you don't have that many.
Speaker:I like I've got a lot of them, but.
Speaker:I was at Barnes and Noble, oh, probably a couple of weeks ago, and was amazed
Speaker:at How big the cookbook and cooking section in these stores have gotten
Speaker:these bookstores, they are huge.
Speaker:it was the whole wall of the upper level of this.
Speaker:Barnes and Nobles down in the Tampa area, and cookbooks from Harry Potter
Speaker:cookbooks to the death of cooking.
Speaker:That sounds very ominous.
Speaker:But there was so many, and I probably, I wish there would've been a chair there
Speaker:'cause I would've sat down for hours and I would've lost Bob but, but I like the
Speaker:ones that you can find in the little nooks and crannies and the special gift stores.
Speaker:I've got one from the Connecticut Shores that I've made a number
Speaker:of recipes and obviously, 'cause I don't follow recipes too well.
Speaker:I've made some versions of my own.
Speaker:But the Silver Palette Cookbook is a great one.
Speaker:There's two of them that I've got.
Speaker:There's a cranberry apple and red wine pie in there.
Speaker:That is my go-to.
Speaker:That is really good.
Speaker:And then of course, Julia's book.
Speaker:I have Julia's book and then I recently, I didn't even know, I've been
Speaker:collecting them in finding them in old junk shops, which are fascinating.
Speaker:I found one called Fire and Ice that was printed in 1978.
Speaker:And found just, I just opened it by chance this morning.
Speaker:It opened to a recipe for Diana's Portuguese sweet bread.
Speaker:Now I didn't even know what Portuguese sweet bread till we
Speaker:moved to Massachusetts as a kid.
Speaker:This is like cake.
Speaker:It's delicious.
Speaker:So I'm gonna have to try that one now that it must be something that was karma.
Speaker:It just happened to open to that one.
Speaker:But
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: let me, um.
Speaker:Yeah, let me, add in that Barnes and Noal makeup, don't know if it's there
Speaker:or in the children's section, but my grandchildren have cookbooks written for
Speaker:children, and that's an interesting thing.
Speaker:And they're into cooking.
Speaker:they understand and they read cookbooks, but going back to the early days.
Speaker:The early settlers used the British cookbooks.
Speaker:Of course they did, right?
Speaker:until Amelia Simmons wrote American Cookery, which incorporated
Speaker:American native dishes in foods like cornmeal, for there you have it.
Speaker:Amelia did that.
Speaker:Next came Fanny Farmers, the Boston Cooking School.
Speaker:a kind of I was turned towards science and I bought one of these once
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: A Fanny
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: could, uh, the original, not original
Speaker:one, but a reprint of it.
Speaker:And you could barely read it.
Speaker:It was written scientifically.
Speaker:And that was published in 1896 and she was a cooking
Speaker:expert and a culinary educator.
Speaker:And so it was very.
Speaker:Precise in its measurements and written in a very stilted, almost under un
Speaker:understandable style and you know, about level teaspoon and, and all of that.
Speaker:So it took everything in a direction of precision as opposed to just sort
Speaker:of a pinch of this, a pinch of that.
Speaker:And that had been more how people had gone along.
Speaker:And then of course, Nancy talk about the joy of cooking,
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: So the Joy of Cooking was a self-published book,
Speaker:which I find fascinating because today self-publishing is the hot thing versus
Speaker:going through a regular publisher.
Speaker:But 1931 by Irma Rombauer.
Speaker:Who was not a chef, but she turned things, words a little bit more
Speaker:reasonable for the home cook.
Speaker:A little less scientific, but certainly very valid in what she did.
Speaker:And the interesting factoid is that she wrote this book after her husband
Speaker:committed suicide in 1930 and she needed money, so she used $3,000 of her.
Speaker:Remaining inheritance and printed 3000 copies.
Speaker:So it was a dollar a book.
Speaker:And the Joy Cooking book is thick.
Speaker:It's, I don't know how many pages.
Speaker:It's a couple.
Speaker:I'm gonna look at it right now because it's a couple hundred pages and lemme see,
Speaker:what was the last page number on this?
Speaker:It's those two somewhere.
Speaker:Quickly I'm opening up, you know it's almost a thousand pages.
Speaker:So 855 at the index.
Speaker:close to 900 pages.
Speaker:That's a big book.
Speaker:Anyway so she sold these books during the Depression area as a way to sur
Speaker:survive and take care of her family.
Speaker:today it has sold over 20 million copies.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Wow.
Speaker:Wow.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: this is another story of food.
Speaker:Being a survival mechanism.
Speaker:And today the family is still involved and they reprint or recreate
Speaker:this they I should say, they don't recreate, they update the book
Speaker:every, I think it's every 10 years.
Speaker:I don't have the exact number, but it's about every 10 years.
Speaker:' cause I remember hearing the grandchildren talking about it.
Speaker:And they test every single recipe in there to make sure that it.
Speaker:It's worthy of staying in the book, or do they need to tweak it,
Speaker:which makes it even more important.
Speaker:'cause that truly is the joy of cooking, truly is a family
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Uh huh.
Speaker:A family memoir of a family.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And and I've got a question for you before, but I wanted to also
Speaker:just finish that off by saying to recalling the World War ii, you
Speaker:mentioned it in the depression era, brought on a whole new set of cookbooks.
Speaker:Ending food waste became a topic.
Speaker:It's returning, isn't it?
Speaker:And including the wartime cook and included tips on how to use filler and
Speaker:meats, oatmeal, potatoes as filler.
Speaker:'cause you didn't have much meat.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:And how Yeah.
Speaker:How to use sugar and butter sparingly.
Speaker:But I was just curious, what's your best and favorite recipe
Speaker:out of the joy of cooking?
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: I would say sugar cookies.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: That's
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: You know, there they're very simple recipes in there
Speaker:that I go to, but I have a cheater.
Speaker:So the cheater in the Joy of Cooking book, it's not actually in the book, but I you
Speaker:mentioned that you have recipes from like, when you buy something like a device.
Speaker:I bought a popover pan years ago.
Speaker:It had to be probably like 20 years ago.
Speaker:And.
Speaker:It came with a popover recipe.
Speaker:That is the one popover recipe that works for me.
Speaker:It is still on that original piece of paper that came with a popover
Speaker:pan, and it is tucked in the front of my Joy of cooking book.
Speaker:I have to actually now write it and put it in our family tree food stories
Speaker:book with a story in how I got it and.
Speaker:How everybody loves my popovers.
Speaker:But, the depression era, not to jump around.
Speaker:I also have a cookbook that I found at a junk or antique shop
Speaker:that was from the Depression era.
Speaker:Not depression, but world War I, world War ii, and they talk about
Speaker:rationing during World War II
Speaker:And just how they added that into each recipe was fascinating to
Speaker:read the history of our country, basically, or what was going on.
Speaker:Through a cookbook that was in somebody's home.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah.
Speaker:And you know, you brought back a memory mine.
Speaker:If there were any recipes in my family, they were on index cards.
Speaker:And I'd still remember the memory.
Speaker:it's one I regret is when my aunt was late for a family party and we
Speaker:had to get back to Kentucky and she was going to make apple dumplings.
Speaker:And I have the recipe and I've shared it before.
Speaker:But.
Speaker:She had it meticulously written out and it's in her handwriting,
Speaker:but we left.
Speaker:It was, she was in Ohio.
Speaker:Oh yeah, she was in Ohio we were in Ohio visiting, and I said, no,
Speaker:we can't wait any longer and left.
Speaker:And she's always late, chronically late.
Speaker:So she did arrive about an hour after we left with her apple dumplings,
Speaker:and she died shortly thereafter.
Speaker:I'm like, go ahead and eat those apple dumplings people.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: And tell the stories.
Speaker:Now we're gonna take a quick break because there's a lot more about
Speaker:cookbooks that tell the story of who we are and even where we are today.
Speaker:But we'll be right back.
Speaker:So Sylvia, I'm ready to crack another cookbook,
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: I bet you are.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: not an egg back of the spine of a cookbook.
Speaker:So modern cookbooks today didn't invent storytelling.
Speaker:'cause there's so many, Stanley Tucci has a cookbook that's out there
Speaker:and I love the shows that he's got.
Speaker:He of travels Italy and talks about the history of the region
Speaker:and the people in the area, but.
Speaker:There's only a few recipes in that book, and it tells his
Speaker:story, which is interesting.
Speaker:But I think a cookbook should tell our own family story.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: I think so I will say that I did read
Speaker:Jacque Pepins bio, one of his bio books, and there's a recipe in there.
Speaker:I'm dying to try, but I never have enough people to eat it, which is Ruben's.
Speaker:It's
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: Oh, a rub.
Speaker:A Ruben,
Speaker:he had a recipe for a
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah, Yeah, we did.
Speaker:It just sounds so good.
Speaker:But, we do all our entertaining at the restaurant, it's like our extension.
Speaker:So we don't do that at home.
Speaker:And I can't eat a whole Ruben, not even a whole Ruben.
Speaker:But the beauty of it is, it's there if you have a family and you wanna try
Speaker:something new, and then it's like you said, it's just got some recipes in it.
Speaker:But it's not all about recipes.
Speaker:But, you know, the best of these books offer three things.
Speaker:Authority, intimacy and story.
Speaker:Trust me, I know food and that probably is kinda like Al Roker.
Speaker:So you watch him do the news and you trust him for that.
Speaker:And then he wants to tell you what his family eats and his favorite recipes and
Speaker:he probably doesn't cook every day, but, it's kind interesting and I'll tell you
Speaker:by the way, how I got where I am today.
Speaker:So
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: And cookbooks really, whether you're talking about
Speaker:your own family cookbook that has been handed down, or one that you've
Speaker:bought and put your own notes in.
Speaker:They give you a, I shouldn't say they give you, they force you.
Speaker:To slow down and just take a break and well.
Speaker:The cookbooks today are absolutely gorgeous.
Speaker:The photographs and the work and the art that goes into them.
Speaker:I've got a cookbook that I found again at another sort of junk shop.
Speaker:From the Homestead Inn,, I think that's West Virginia,
Speaker:and it's absolutely stunning.
Speaker:I have never made anything out of it, but I just love running my hand
Speaker:over the pages and thinking about a time that I visited that with a, it
Speaker:was an afternoon with a boyfriend in college with oh my God, look at this
Speaker:castle in the middle of West Virginia.
Speaker:And we of felt like they imported the squirrels because they
Speaker:looked so well groomed, but.
Speaker:And this string quartet and watching everybody having
Speaker:tea, it was just delightful.
Speaker:And we left and had lunch at McDonald's.
Speaker:But being able to look at the beauty in the art of the cookbook, , my
Speaker:mother-in-law gave me a cookbook that she had and probably didn't
Speaker:really use that much, but it was Better Homes and Gardens of the day.
Speaker:And it was the difference between the cookbooks of, I would say.
Speaker:Probably the fifties, the photograph ones, and today are night and day because
Speaker:the photographs were not particularly beautiful in appetizing, everything.
Speaker:Had sort of a yellow okra look to it with the photographs
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah, although you want me to play.
Speaker:You want me to, yeah, you want me to play devil's advocate on that A little bit.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So all that food is so beautiful and don't even ask how they
Speaker:make it look so beautiful.
Speaker:'cause
Speaker:then it'll like destroy all that for you.
Speaker:And yours never looks that good, you know?
Speaker:, a little imperfection in the photographs is something I'm not opposed to.
Speaker:And it's just your own tastes, The photos in these and the famous people
Speaker:cookbooks, just like you said, maybe they're not meant to look that good.
Speaker:Maybe they're not meant to be cooked to look that good.
Speaker:They're something else.
Speaker:They're evoking some sort of.
Speaker:Nostalgia better times and being in the kitchen and it's
Speaker:not meant to look like that.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: Comfort and family and coziness
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: and that's stage their own, you
Speaker:know, what you feel like you want.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: and you know what?
Speaker:Everything will look better if you just throw a little.
Speaker:Chopped green onion or parsley on it every now and then if everything
Speaker:looks beige and brown on our plates at dinner, like I did it last night
Speaker:and I cooked some salmon and I think this looks a little pink and brown.
Speaker:It needs something else.
Speaker:I just took some green chives that we had the, like the freeze dried chives
Speaker:in a big bottle and probably not they weren't fresh, so call me out on that.
Speaker:but I just sprinkled it on.
Speaker:It's oh, that looks so much prettier.
Speaker:Voila, we had dinner.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: I love that.
Speaker:we don't know where cookbooks are gonna go tomorrow.
Speaker:They'll evolve just like everything else in America.
Speaker:We sort of reinvent things, right?
Speaker:But we remember also when salt and pepper were the primary seasonings
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: Oh my mom.
Speaker:Yep.
Speaker:Salt and pepper.
Speaker:Yep.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Now I will say I've got a whole big lineup because the
Speaker:problem with people like me is you need a tablespoon of this or a teaspoon of
Speaker:this, but you can only buy these kind of, you know, jars that are bigger than that.
Speaker:So you gotta really watch them and watch the expiration dates and all of that.
Speaker:But I do have a whole cabinet full of them because the times I do cook.
Speaker:You wanna add a little bit more of that spice and the ability to experiment.
Speaker:And sometimes it works and sometimes it just doesn't.
Speaker:But one of the most famous cookbooks, 'cause you're talking about ethnic
Speaker:cookbooks too, are coming into Vogue.
Speaker:The immigrant cookbook Recipes That Make America Great by Layla.
Speaker:MBE has recipes from second generation chefs from six continents.
Speaker:So that sounds pretty cool too,
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: yeah, I'm gonna have to go search that one out.
Speaker:Spend a couple hours at Barnes and Nobles.
Speaker:And of course, everybody's probably had at some point in their house, whether
Speaker:it's theirs or their mom, one of those.
Speaker:Church cookbooks or a junior league or even the local women's club?
Speaker:I would say what it's the school, you know, the local school one that
Speaker:is a little stained, a little tattered been used because the friend down
Speaker:the street put her recipe in it.
Speaker:Whether it was good or not, it didn't matter because they
Speaker:weren't really tested by.
Speaker:The producers, they were tested by us, by our parents they tell a story in their
Speaker:own right about love and care and feeding for the community and recipes today.
Speaker:I'm really sad that so many of these recipes are now on the internet that you
Speaker:can find anything, which is fine, but it's not the same as holding a book in your
Speaker:hand and saying, I wanna cook that one.
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: Yeah, except I do love those recipes online.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: I do go through
Speaker:#74 Sylvia Cookbooks Zoom: I have a whole drawer full of them because there
Speaker:are times when you know, Hey, I'm just feeling a little experimental here.
Speaker:I don't wanna buy a whole cookbook to do it.
Speaker:I do use Ruby when I'm doing a Turkey.
Speaker:Bernie does that.
Speaker:Bernie does the Turkey, and he follows Ruby's.
Speaker:Advice.
Speaker:Old Ruby, she was something.
Speaker:And so anyway, but we keep the books even the ones we don't cook
Speaker:from those, like from Ruby and some people that we know and love.
Speaker:#74 Nancy Cookbooks Zoom: It's like keeping a cherished friend
Speaker:in your kitchen, in your house.
Speaker:Cookbooks give us a way to remind us that we're loved, that we share love in our
Speaker:kitchen and appreciation for one another.
Speaker:And as they say, every meal has a story.
Speaker:I
Speaker:would say not as they say.
Speaker:As we stay.
Speaker:Every meal has a story and every story is a feast.
Speaker:So on that note, if you have a cookbook story.
Speaker:Please share it with us and go to Podcast Family Tree Food Stories because we'd
Speaker:love to hear your story about a family cookbook or come to our Facebook page,
Speaker:which is Family Tree Food Stories.
Speaker:We'll put a link in the episode notes, and again, every meal has a
Speaker:story and every story is a feast.
Speaker:We'll see you soon, or maybe we'll read about you in the next cookbook.
Speaker:Take care.
Speaker:Bye-bye.






